fix(removePatch): fire $destroy event when full jQuery is used

The previous code relied upon internal jQuery structures which are not
present in v.1.8.2 (current).  This code uses the public API to fire the
$destroy custom event, and so should work with any post-1.4 jQuery
version.

Author: PeteAppleton

src/jqLite.js

@@ -129,12 +129,7 @@ function JQLitePatchJQueryRemove(name, dispatchThis) {
       for(setIndex = 0, setLength = set.length; setIndex < setLength; setIndex++) {
         element = jqLite(set[setIndex]);
         if (fireEvent) {
-          events = element.data('events');
-          if ( (fns = events && events.$destroy) ) {
-            forEach(fns, function(fn){
-              fn.handler();
-            });
-          }
+          element.trigger('$destroy');
         } else {
           fireEvent = !fireEvent;
         }