出版社: Harper Wave
副标题: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
出版年: 2022-9-13
页数: 336
定价: $31.00
装帧: Hardcover
ISBN: 9780063159488
内容简介 · · · · · ·
INSTANT #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
An Instant Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and Indie Bestseller
"This book is for any parent who has ever struggled under the substantial weight of caregiving--which is to say, all of us. Good Inside is not only a wise and practical guide to raising resilient, emotionally healthy kids, it's also a supportive resource for overwhelmed parents ...
INSTANT #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
An Instant Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and Indie Bestseller
"This book is for any parent who has ever struggled under the substantial weight of caregiving--which is to say, all of us. Good Inside is not only a wise and practical guide to raising resilient, emotionally healthy kids, it's also a supportive resource for overwhelmed parents who need more compassion and less stress. Dr. Becky is the smart, thoughtful, in-the-trenches parenting expert we've been waiting for "--Eve Rodsky, New York Times bestselling author of Fair Play and Find Your Unicorn Space
Dr. Becky Kennedy, wildly popular parenting expert and creator of @drbeckyatgoodinside, shares her groundbreaking approach to raising kids and offers practical strategies for parenting in a way that feels good.
Over the past several years, Dr. Becky Kennedy--known to her followers as "Dr. Becky"--has been sparking a parenting revolution. Millions of parents, tired of following advice that either doesn't work or simply doesn't feel good, have embraced Dr. Becky's empowering and effective approach, a model that prioritizes connecting with our kids over correcting them.
Parents have long been sold a model of childrearing that simply doesn't work. From reward charts to time outs, many popular parenting approaches are based on shaping behavior, not raising humans. These techniques don't build the skills kids need for life, or account for their complex emotional needs. Add to that parents' complicated relationships with their own upbringings, and it's easy to see why so many caretakers feel lost, burned out, and worried they're failing their kids. In Good Inside, Dr. Becky shares her parenting philosophy, complete with actionable strategies, that will help parents move from uncertainty and self-blame to confidence and sturdy leadership.
Offering perspective-shifting parenting principles and troubleshooting for specific scenarios--including sibling rivalry, separation anxiety, tantrums, and more--Good Inside is a comprehensive resource for a generation of parents looking for a new way to raise their kids while still setting them up for a lifetime of self-regulation, confidence, and resilience.
Good Inside的创作者
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贝姬·肯尼迪 作者
作者简介 · · · · · ·
Dr. Becky Kennedy is a clinical psychologist and mom of three, recently named “The Millennial Parenting Whisperer” by TIME Magazine, who’s rethinking the way we raise our children. She specializes in thinking deeply about what’s happening for kids and translating these ideas into simple, actionable strategies for parents to use in their homes. Dr. Becky's goal is to empower par...
Dr. Becky Kennedy is a clinical psychologist and mom of three, recently named “The Millennial Parenting Whisperer” by TIME Magazine, who’s rethinking the way we raise our children. She specializes in thinking deeply about what’s happening for kids and translating these ideas into simple, actionable strategies for parents to use in their homes. Dr. Becky's goal is to empower parents to feel sturdier and more equipped to manage the challenges of parenting.
目录 · · · · · ·
Introduction ix
Part I Dr. Becky's Parenting Principles
Chapter 1 Good Inside 3
Chapter 2 Two Things Are True 13
Chapter 3 Know Your Job 27
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Introduction ix
Part I Dr. Becky's Parenting Principles
Chapter 1 Good Inside 3
Chapter 2 Two Things Are True 13
Chapter 3 Know Your Job 27
Chapter 4 The Early Years Matter 39
Chapter 5 It's Not Too Late 51
Chapter 6 Resilience > Happiness 61
Chapter 7 Behavior Is a Window 71
Chapter 8 Reduce Shame, Increase Connection 85
Chapter 9 Tell the Truth 95
Chapter 10 Self-Care 105
Part II Building Connection and Addressing Behaviors
Chapter 11 Building Connection Capital 119
Chapter 12 Not Listening 141
Chapter 13 Emotional Tantrums 149
Chapter 14 Aggressive Tantrums (Hitting, Biting, Throwing) 157
Chapter 15 Sibling Rivalry 169
Chapter 16 Rudeness and Defiance 179
Chapter 17 Whining 187
Chapter 18 Lying 195
Chapter 19 Fears and Anxiety 203
Chapter 20 Hesitation and Shyness 211
Chapter 21 Frustration Intolerance 219
Chapter 22 Food and Eating Habits 227
Chapter 23 Consent 237
Chapter 24 Tears 245
Chapter 25 Building Confidence 251
Chapter 26 Perfectionism 259
Chapter 27 Separation Anxiety 267
Chapter 28 Sleep 275
Chapter 29 Kids Who Don't Like Talking About Feelings (Deeply Feeling Kids) 285
Conclusion 295
Acknowledgments 299
Index 305
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2 有用 richel 2023-07-06 06:52:53 陕西
Resilience is more important than happiness.
0 有用 莎拉米 2024-08-14 15:27:36 北京
Relax! Just a good kid having a hard time.
1 有用 Sin Cera 2024-06-19 11:04:41 广东
很少看育儿书,这本值得五星推荐。超级多实操案例,话术都写好了。中心思想要把人的行为和人的品性分开,不管是我们自己的还是孩子的,相信我们都是good inside,对待孩子的难搞行为(书里真的列了很多很多),I hear you, I know it’s hard, I’m going to do xxx now and it’s fine that you don’t like it. Conne... 很少看育儿书,这本值得五星推荐。超级多实操案例,话术都写好了。中心思想要把人的行为和人的品性分开,不管是我们自己的还是孩子的,相信我们都是good inside,对待孩子的难搞行为(书里真的列了很多很多),I hear you, I know it’s hard, I’m going to do xxx now and it’s fine that you don’t like it. Connection is key. (展开)
1 有用 神算半瞎 2024-01-24 09:51:10 上海
上个月教育问题咨询了闺蜜。闺蜜推荐的这本书。找了audio book,用每天效率最高的午休时段逐章听完的,每次听完都会回到工位上做下笔记。parenting的目标是什麽?我勉强总结下:对自己满意。
10 有用 -% 2023-08-11 14:54:01 上海
特别喜欢,不只是育儿书,更是了解情感表现背后的实际需求,最喜欢的一段话是“I often think that parenting is really an exercise in our own development and growth; when we have kids, we are confronted with so many truths about ourselves, our... 特别喜欢,不只是育儿书,更是了解情感表现背后的实际需求,最喜欢的一段话是“I often think that parenting is really an exercise in our own development and growth; when we have kids, we are confronted with so many truths about ourselves, our childhoods, and our relationships with our families of origin. And while we can use this information to learn and unlearn, break cycles, and heal.” (展开)