作者:
Tina Payne Bryson
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Daniel J·Siegel 出版社: Delacorte Press 副标题: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind, Survive Everyday Parenting Struggles, and Help Your Family Thrive 出版年: 2011-10-4 页数: 192 定价: USD 24.00 装帧: Hardcover ISBN: 9780553807912
Your toddler throws a tantrum in the middle of a store. Your preschooler refuses to get dressed. Your fifth-grader sulks on the bench instead of playing on the field. Do children conspire to make their parents’ lives endlessly challenging? No—it’s just their developing brain calling the shots!
In this pioneering, practical book, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author o...
Your toddler throws a tantrum in the middle of a store. Your preschooler refuses to get dressed. Your fifth-grader sulks on the bench instead of playing on the field. Do children conspire to make their parents’ lives endlessly challenging? No—it’s just their developing brain calling the shots!
In this pioneering, practical book, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author of the bestselling Mindsight , and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson demystify the meltdowns and aggravation, explaining the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures. The “upstairs brain,” which makes decisions and balances emotions, is under construction until the mid-twenties. And especially in young children, the right brain and its emotions tend to rule over the logic of the left brain. No wonder kids can seem—and feel—so out of control. By applying these discoveries to everyday parenting, you can turn any outburst, argument, or fear into a chance to integrate your child’s brain and foster vital growth. Raise calmer, happier children using twelve key strategies, including
• Name It to Tame It: Corral raging right-brain behavior through left-brain storytelling, appealing to the left brain’s affinity for words and reasoning to calm emotional storms and bodily tension.
• Engage, Don’t Enrage: Keep your child thinking and listening, instead of purely reacting.
• Move It or Lose It: Use physical activities to shift your child’s emotional state.
• Let the Clouds of Emotion Roll By: Guide your children when they are stuck on a negative emotion, and help them understand that feelings come and go.
• SIFT: Help children pay attention to the Sensations, Images, Feelings, and Thoughts within them so that they can make better decisions and be more flexible.
• Connect Through Conflict: Use discord to encourage empathy and greater social success.
Complete with clear explanations, age-appropriate strategies for dealing with day-to-day struggles, and illustrations that will help you explain these concepts to your child, The Whole-Brain Child shows you how to cultivate healthy emotional and intellectual development so that your children can lead balanced, meaningful, and connected lives.
This is the ultimate learning experience. Only after you look through how is your own “narrative” being grown to the today’s stage, you can help the little one to grow to the next stage. Cannot wait f...This is the ultimate learning experience. Only after you look through how is your own “narrative” being grown to the today’s stage, you can help the little one to grow to the next stage. Cannot wait for this opportunity to “grow” again.(展开)
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0 有用 Z. 2023-10-13 18:51:31 北京
没孩子的读读也挺好的，了解自己的大脑，了解自己。
0 有用 OPPY 2023-10-02 10:08:13 加拿大
快速翻读一遍，总体感觉是一本不错的儿童教育指导。 个人很认同很欣赏：➊本书着眼于强调【integration】，强调一种综合制衡的发展模式——包括感性与理性、直觉与思考、控制与本能、自我与他人、内向与外向等等方面的均衡。➋全书核心在于“亲子关系”，在于“处理情绪”。 全书内容组织简明清晰，且给出了很有启发意义的12条strategy，即针对一些具体情境或案例提出了相当具有可执行性的参考建议。 ... 快速翻读一遍，总体感觉是一本不错的儿童教育指导。 个人很认同很欣赏：➊本书着眼于强调【integration】，强调一种综合制衡的发展模式——包括感性与理性、直觉与思考、控制与本能、自我与他人、内向与外向等等方面的均衡。➋全书核心在于“亲子关系”，在于“处理情绪”。 全书内容组织简明清晰，且给出了很有启发意义的12条strategy，即针对一些具体情境或案例提出了相当具有可执行性的参考建议。 但我有个最大的批评是，作者们没有必要过度包装、非要给自己的理念披上一层“大脑科学”的外衣。书中少许脑神经知识科普，其实跟具体育儿指导没有太大关联，很有拉大旗作虎皮之嫌。 教育学、心理学等社会科学，必须致力于规范化、学术化，但注定不是严格的量化的实证科学，它们注定是基于大量经验、观察和个体判断。 (展开)
0 有用 王二又在乱扫弦 2022-12-17 14:59:32 爱尔兰
还是那一页冰箱贴最重要了！当然这书最有意思的点还是提醒父母作者聊的当然也是父母的大脑。TLDR：1.跟任何人沟通的时候，无论线上线下，第一步一定是建立连接，建立一个同在的场域。2.大脑分区，需要区分对待。人性，同理心，都是后天不断成长，孩子如此，成人亦然。
0 有用 Kan 2024-02-29 15:08:17 美国
This is the ultimate learning experience. Only after you look through how is your own “narrative” being grown to the today’s stage, you can help the little one to grow to the next stage. Cannot wait f... This is the ultimate learning experience. Only after you look through how is your own “narrative” being grown to the today’s stage, you can help the little one to grow to the next stage. Cannot wait for this opportunity to “grow” again. (展开)
0 有用 shansquare 2023-07-09 06:18:11 美国
My favorite book on parenting so far.