The Fertility Questions You Might Be Too Terrified to Ask
Many couples suffering from infertility suffer in silence, not letting their family or close friends in on their problems. This is because to many people it feels like a failure - having a baby should be easy shouldn’t it? There are probably questions which you are too embarrassed or too terrified to ask your doctor. Let’s see if we can answer some.
Will I ever get pregnant?
Yes, more than likely you will! 92% of all couples conceive within the first 12 months of trying. But go and see a doctor after one year of trying if you have had no success.
Could it be my sperm?
It could be. 40% of all cases of infertility in a coupl elie with the male. But the good news is that there are plenty of techniques now available to overcome these problems.
Am I too old to have my own child?
Fertility declines with age and it is believed that women over 44 years are unlikely to be fertile. However there are tests which can be done to predict the remaining egg supply and their potential for IVF stimulation. But they can’t predict the quality.
Will fertility treatment hurt?
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If you don’t like needles it might be more stressful, but it shouldn’t hurt. No one likes injecting medication but it is something that you will get used to. As for egg retrieval - the doctors will make sure that you are sedated so that you are not aware of any discomfort.
Is it OK to use complementary therapies?
If these don’t interfere with your medication, then of course. Acupuncture is often available at clinics and massage can help you destress.
Is ICSI safe to use?
There have been many retrospective studies which show that it is but a recent study showed that male children conceived through ICSI are less fertile.
Should I use donor eggs?
Once women are in their 40’s there is less chance of a successful pregnancy using their own eggs. However it is not impossible and you must discuss with your own doctor the best treatment option based on your age and tests.
Kamila works for a fertility clinic in the Czech Republic .
