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Don’t Worry, Guys
Just Listen To Your Female Friends Who Got Your Back
Hey, guys!
I know things are getting tough out there, with all the articles telling you you’re doomed to a lonely life and death. I know it’s all aimed to scare you into “becoming” better partners. I know scare tactics don’t work on a lot of you, too. I don’t blame you for being upset. I know most of you try, but haven’t been given the right tools to understand. It’s okay. Women are learning, too. We’re not the know-it-alls some want you to think. The world IS definitely changing.
Instead of fighting the changes, though. you need to get onboard. How? I know the studies are about as clear as mud to some of you, the psychobabble is real, I’ll tell ya. I talk to a lot of my male friends about this stuff, and I get it. It seems like everything you’re taught growing up is now “toxic”. Not really. Some things are, but not as much as the fear mongerers are telling you. There’s a LOT of toxic men out there, I think you know which ones, though, they’re kinda obvious.
I think the most important thing you could do to become the “White Knight” for all your female friends is to call those assholes out. We really appreciate when a guy that isn’t one of our gay friends recognizes douchbaggery from another guy. I don’t mean start a fight, or kick the guy’s ass, just a “Wow, dude, you need to learn…
