How to win friends by “interested challenge”
The interested challenge that I have got today is all about being interesting by being interested in others.
I have got this challenge to learn the beautiful lesson practically from the chapter “HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND WIN PEOPLE” from Dale Carnegie’s book. The topic is totally new to me, I have never ever thought about being interesting in such a way where we are making others people feel valued or important rather than making them talk about ourselves. We can only come across this idea from human phycology point of view, where human feel good whenever there is a discussion about the things in which they are interested or least could be said when there is a discussion on them either directly or indirectly.
So in order to win this challenge, honestly speaking, in order to give myself exposure to this wonderful experience, I decided to send text messages to my beloved. Here are the screenshots of those messages.
The chat that I had with my aunt was:
The chat that I had with my friend:
Amazingly, all the questions were a throwback to me.
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No doubt, it was a wonderful and magical experience where I made myself interesting to others by making them feel that I am interested in them. This has taught me the beautiful lesson with profound explanation through practical exposure that will not help me in my personal life such as making good relation with beloved ones but also will help me in professional life such as getting a job in the desired firm. Nothing can more beautifully conclude it but the quote of Dale Carnegie:
