Avoid Hatred; Stop Requesting Favours.
Desperation and hate…
You are so desperate to benefit from individuals, your family, friends, and relatives that you forget it can actually cause you your dignity and pride and poses you instead with hatred towards your target.
That spirit of always requesting from people is very mischievous and escalating that you do not begin to know until it too late by then, you already begin to feel that you’re entitled to other people’s property of which if they neglect granting you request by not giving to you, it begins to ignites or trigger hate from you. Don’t you see that such spirit/manner is demonic?
At first when I started requesting favours from people, it was difficult for me, because I was a person of pride and integrity, I believed in working for my own money but later on, things didn’t get so well for me, so I decided to start requesting, I was lucky to have families and relatives who are big. Before I could realize I have turned into a beggar, I stopped seeing it as anything, that if any of my target refuses to give me money, I began to see them as enemy. Isn’t that disastrous? I forgot my pride and made myself an embarrassment. You know how it feels when everybody knows you’re coming around to request for favors again? Oh! Damn that feeling is disgusting. That was when I realize and got my senses back.
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Entitlement somewhat ignites the spirit of anger and hatred towards your love ones. “It is better to even give than to receive” says the bible in the book of (Acts 20:35).
So, I urge you all if you have an entitled spirit of desperation like me then, desist from it before it ruin your life and opportunities. It is a very lazy spirit. The rule is to accept when you’re given to and not be desperate towards collecting from people always; it’s a distraction from getting and building yours.
Don’t break the love you have for your friends and families because you’re in need.
Kill that spirit of entitlement and desperation to become a better man.
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