She deserves more.
She isn’t gonna take it anymore. You may not be ready to hear this, let alone give this to her, but this is what she needs and will not accept anything less than this.
She is the kind of girl that has high standards, and no, not in the way you’re thinking. She doesn’t expect a Gucci bag or Prada dress, nor a pair of Jimmy Choo’s shoes nor a trip to Paris. No, she doesn’t need expensive gifts nor grand gestures to show you love her. She takes happiness in the small, little gestures like a hug when you know she’s had a bad day, message in the middle of the day because you missed her, or write love notes for her to find or a movie session where you cuddle and fall asleep. Take her to her favorite restaurant and kiss her in the rain.
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She wants you to fall for her soul, her personality before you fall for her face and ass. Enjoy each other’s company before you enjoy each other’s body.
Know her quirks, her mannerisms, what ticks her and what makes her giggle like a child. Learn her insecurities and help her through them because she only cares about your opinion.
Fall for how intelligent she is and keep up with her conversations. Take her sarcasm and dish it right back to her because she enjoys that. Look deep and serious into her eyes and ask her funny questions that make her laugh, stay up late nights to have deep conversations, tell her how much you love randomly.
Gift her a book she mentioned to you the other day, or play her favorite song just because. She wants the kind of love that makes people go “Oh! They’re still together”, and your kids say “I want a love like my parents”. She wants trust, honestly and loyalty. Communicate and discuss the important stuff like adults, and joke like kids. Fight like siblings and take care of each other like parents. Love like young lovers and care like no other. She’s the kind of girl that wants to be a wife and the best mother any kid could have. Love her for her, appreciate her and celebrate her.
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