Widows/divorced
I don’t know, why people divide these ladies into different groups and names them, dividing them by calling, them as they are widows, and those are divorced.
Like what does this even mean there are widows/divorced?
Are they not ladies anymore? Are they not form the same gender anymore?
People talk about gender equality…
Here, our society has made inequality and division in the same gender, itself…
I wanted to cry on this but I wanted to laugh more. That’s how mad, fool, and silly of us, that we are even thinking about gender equality.
On the other hand, our immortal people in this society show immorality with the best. Examine and dividing ladies into groups. Windows, unmarried but 30+, young girls, divorced. And many other groups would be present.
I don’t remember naming our Male bothers and dividing them into groups then why do ladies have excess to be divided into these groups?
I just can’t get the excess to understand the idea of calling and dividing our ladies into the groups.
Why? Are widows/divorced are not as same as women as your mother & wife anymore, that are in your homes!?
Or is it that widows/divorced are not as same as your sisters & daughters anymore!?
The answer is, they are the same ladies like those, who are in your house…
They have the same right to have respect.
- It is none of their mistakes, that their life was not fair enough to them…
- It is none of their mistake that their spouse left them.
- Only If they can have excess to change their own life and destiny they won’t be widows/divorce
They are the same ladies, who deserve to be respected but doubles the amount. They are the one victim here…
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The most painful pain is that which they get from their own life, their relationships, form their spouse, the separations of partners. It is the hardest thing to just see their spouse eliminate one form their life…
Life was not fair to them
The pains they have been through are a lot please don’t add more to their pain by adding immorality to our those ladies to whom life wasn’t fair. Don’t ask them, what do they are feeling(they are feeling what you have never been though), don’t ask them were they righteous to their spouses. Don’t add more to their pain, because they knew it very well! no one is here to listen but they’re here to have fun, to have something to talk about to pass the time, to make gossips about.
But they are the strongest ladies in our society.
They bear the pain of; immoral society, breakup, but still manage to breathe. They are those, on asking them; how are you? They have to say I’m fine even so, nothing is fine, they are not fine, their life is not fine, there are not fine with the destiny they have, they’re not fine with the question how are you?. Know That They Are Not Feeling Fine. And they are ladies, bear everything, everybody’s words. But they say I’m fine…
In the name of God.
Please have a heart that can cry when witnessing someone in pain, not enjoy and make gossips.
Don’t ask them why they are applying makeup get ready with new clothes or why are dressing like they are unmarried girls…
Stop! They are widows/divorced, but they are not dead.
They are living, they are breathing, their eyes watches dreams, their heart is beating, they still have emotions in them, they have little life still alive left in their lifeless soul.
I guess, they unfortunately still are alive in this immoral society. Let them breathe, they’re not the responsible form they’re fade
Some people just change their way of viewing to the ladies if they come to know that, these are ladies, who got widows/divorced. People would address them as widows/divorced ladies. Is it a band they get? Can’t they be addressed by their first names at least? Wow!
Insane human Insane!
We Are not humans anymore that’s why our society has ladies struggling this life’s challenges themselves alone.
It is a shame on this type of immoral, character fewer people they are the people who make our society polluted with there ideas.
Widows/divorced are ladies as same as those who are present in your homes
Respect them as much you do to your own ladies in your homes.
… …. …. …. Fin.
