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Choosing You Every Day
Love matters. It is a feeling that can be expressed in all forms. But choosing is the ultimate liberating action.
Whenever I think about love, I think about LANY. They have this song called Nobody Else. This song depicts connection beautifully and with utmost concern, and also in a very modest way.
I’ve been talking with a friend about a partner we wanted. We actually have the same desire about having someone who can keep the flame in ourselves alive, who can inspire us with the smallest thing they do and they love in daily bassist, someone who wants to willingly debate about anything but keep choosing us everyday.
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I think, love is an attraction that can fluctuate. What is higher than that is the freewill, which is, choosing our partner, to go through and undergo various forms of processes going forward.
And probably, how can we convince ourselves that that person is worth to be chosen everyday? Why you choose them?
Just because.
I strongly believe, it is the final answer. If you can’t find words to answer, but you did all things with them already, in any meaningful way, you might answer question above with just because. If that is your answer, that person has high chance of becoming…
