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3 min readSep 3, 2025

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๐—” ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—š๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป; ๐—” ๐—•๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐— ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ

Rethinking Family Trusts for Beneficiaries Who Live Beyond Their Means โ€” Introducing the Financial Maturity Trust

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Recent CNA and CNBC reports highlight the surge of young adults living paycheck-to-paycheck and heavily using Buy Now, Pay Later schemes (links in comments).

These arenโ€™t low-income earners with many mouths to feed โ€” many are high-income bracketers.

Unlike their parents, who only took on debt for big-ticket items like a home or car, many young adults today embrace credit for convenience and instant gratification.

For them, debt is less stigma, more status quo.

The CNA and CNBC pieces point to a global trend: young adultsโ€™ growing lifestyle-driven spending and experience-led consumption.

They hint of a cultural, generational shift: saving is harder, spending is easier, and the temptation to live beyond oneโ€™s means is harder to fight.

๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜๐˜€: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐— ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ

The family wealth implications are profound.

If a generation is shaped by easy credit, convenience and lifestyle signaling โ€” what happens when they inherit family wealth?

Ask family wealth advisers, and the classic โ€œmousetrapโ€ on offer is a family trust.

I would agree, but with caveats.

Here are the usual versions (and their flaws):

โ€ข ๐——๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ โ€” gives trustees wide latitude to protect funds and support beneficiaries

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The family wealth Swiss Army Knife, flexible, useful, but often too focused on asset protection at the expense of beneficiariesโ€™ financial maturity and well-being

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โ€ข ๐—”๐—ด๐—ฒ-๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ โ€” releases wealth at 25, 30, 40, etc.; it assumes maturity naturally comes with birthdays, which is just lazy, reckless guesswork

โ€ข ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ โ€” ties distributions to behavior (graduate, marry, keep a job = get $x). But psychologists warn that extrinsic rewards erode intrinsic drive, breeding resentment and dependency (Self-Determination Theory)

How then?

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜

Enter the Financial Maturity Trust, a souped-up discretionary trust.

Pioneered by family wealth guru Jim Grubman and lawyer-psychologist duo Jon & Eileen Gallo, it ties trust distributions to financial maturity.

A beneficiaryโ€™s financial behaviour: spending, saving, budgeting, investing, and charitable giving, over time, are financial maturity markers.

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Unlike traditional trusts, it meets beneficiaries where they are.

If thereโ€™s maturity, funds are confidently disbursed.

If not, financial coaching, mentoring or therapy, and financial literacy and other skills-centred initiatives are offered (not forced); distributions are limited to supporting baseline well-being.

Trustees and beneficiaries work together in a person-centred framework to build autonomy and competence.

It puts people first, not wealth, nor does it assume maturity by age or force it with carrots or sticks.

A new generation needs a better mousetrap. I build them.

PS: this isnโ€™t a youth-bashing piece. See my comment below.

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Bernard Ezekiel Chung
Bernard Ezekiel Chung

Written by Bernard Ezekiel Chung

I am a Singapore family wealth and inheritance lawyer who helps families protect family wealth and use it to maximise family unity and human flourishing.