Psychometry
How gifts from your ex might stand in your way to find closure
I have a friend who is an animal communicator and a medium, so we are talking about someone whose 6thsense is well developed. Several weeks ago, still in my acute healing phase from a very traumatic failed relationship I was curious whether the earrings I received from him carried his energy.
Of course, I assumed they did, but I was curious what it is exactly, nevertheless. I knew from past webinars I took part in that my friend was also doing psychometry. This is a phenomenon where a person can READ the energy or memories stored in an object.
She agreed to do the session with me and I showed her the earrings I received from my ex-partner. What followed was mind-bending!
Although I was pretty sure that SOME energy of that person was collected or stored in them I was gob smacked about the exact description of my ex-partner my friend came up with.
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She described his essence so accurately that I had goosebumps, and she also caught the dynamics between me and him and mind you the differences or discrepancies that led to so much pain.
She suggested energetical cleansing of the jewelry I got from him so that those lovely pieces could still be in good use. Admittedly the pieces of jewelry are very pretty and always were to my taste, so I decided to give it a go and performed the cleansing procedure them in a solution of water and the essential oil “Purification” by Young Living, then I put them into the sun and I also placed them on the Flower of Life (which I printed out from the internet) as my friend suggested.
I tried to put them on after the energetic cleansing procedure, but it still didn’t feel good to wear them. I can’t tell how successful or unsuccessful the cleansing procedure was on an objective level. But subjectively I am just not in a place to have anything that belonged to him or was gifted to me by him in my proximity. Maybe at some time in future. Time will tell.
Right now, I am in the process of deep deep healing and I think I will write more about it here as it is a significant part of my life and my hope is that people who have been through a similar painful situation can benefit from my healing journey.
My message today is this: if you ended a relationship and still struggle to liberate yourself from it emotionally and/or mentally, please check whether you have objects on you — like jewelry or pieces of clothing that your ex-partner gifted to you or whether his/her objects like books and other items are still in the space you occupy daily. This residual energy could inhibit the liberation you so desire. Everything is energy. We must be mindful of what we surround ourselves with. Happy exploring!
