This couldn’t be more true. When people say they don’t like cats, to me they’re saying, I don’t like creatures that I have to earn the love and respect of and that I need to be patient with. Love and affection aren’t obligatory. They’re only valuable when freely given. There’s nothing more wonderful than when you’ve established a true connection with a cat and they feel relaxed and serene in your presence. And yourself likewise. It’s one of the nicest things.