There Are Many Ways to Make Caregiving Less Exhausting
This article will give some examples of how to lessen the frustration and exhaustion that caregiving can cause. Some of these examples involve actions that will allow LOs (loved ones) to feel good about being more independent.
Whenever possible, getting financial help from relatives or the sharing of caregiving with relatives will be beneficial. Unfortunately, this type of assistance too often is refused.
Buying your LO slip on shoes will save you the time required every time it is necessary to help your LO put on and take off their shoes. This also will help your LO to feel more independent and confident.
If your LO still can drive safely, getting your LO handicapped parking privileges will keep them safer and probably driving longer. If they can drive safely, you will not be required to drive them wherever they want to go, or to pay for services that drive elderly or handicapped people.
A shower chair and a walk in bathtub can make your LO’s showers safer. A cheaper alternative is a non-slip rubber mat for the bottom of the bathtub.
Many people are not anxious to get a hearing aid. If, however, you do not constantly have to talk loudly and repeat yourself, you will decrease your frustrations and improve your LO’s safety.
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A cane, walker, or wheelchair will help your LO to move around more safely. If you do not have to help them move around, you will save much time and help your LO to feel more independent.
External catheters are for males and females with urinary incontinence. They also will help you, the caregiver of your LO, to avoid the time and effort of many unpleasant clothing changes and washings. Also, your LO will feel less embarrassed.
There might be available, in your area, in-home professional caregivers or adult day care centers. This help can give you a much-needed short rest from your caregiving responsibilities.
Assisted-living residences have many advantages and disadvantages. The staff at such residences will relieve you of most of your caregiving responsibilities. I say “most” because you still will want to visit often and monitor the services your LO is receiving. Such residences are expensive, and the care given is not always acceptable.
When you are not exhausted and frustrated from caregiving, you can be more pleasant to your LO. This attitude and the good feelings your LO will have from continuing independence can make the caregiving experience more agreeable for both of you.
Luke 10:34 describes how the Good Samaritan cared for a total stranger who was in need. Think of this verse when your LO is in need.
