What Causes Twin Flames Journey So Painful
The journey of YOU VS YOU.
Your dark versus your light attributes but it’s also you who stands in your own way, right at the center to make the difference. You be the judge but be a loving judge with kindness and compassion.
The moment you think of someone as your twin flame, that’s how the attachment starts. The moment you believe you have met your other half in another person is in that very moment you decide you are not whole and running from your own self. To feel entitled to someone, not just twin flame but every connection starts without feeling your complete self, is always not a good sign and very likely it will not end well.
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It’s a painful journey because people are more willing to believe the other person is their other half to come to their rescue than believing they are, indeed, their own rescuer. The feeling of loneliness scares most people. It is more easy to be out searching for someone than to look within. It’s always easy to run than to face what you’ve not been prepared for, and most people like to take the easy route including myself because life is tough already, now what? But, the thing is no one knows you better than you know yourself. It’s painful but it is the truth and truth can be hurtful sometimes. We endure pains in search of truth, but also from the pains we learn and we grow.
Twin flames are about you holding one torch of flame for yourself and one torch of flame for others. The flames of loving, caring, nurturing, guiding, understanding, forgiving and compassion and it should be an equal love that you give both to yourself and to others. By healing yourself only then you could heal the world.
This journey teaches us about accepting our own flaws and the flaws of others as well as to see the beauty in ourselves and in others. Your lower self meeting your higher self, and start believing in yourself because nobody could make you to believe you are not complete except yourself.
Be a light source for yourself as well as others, that’s the meaning of 11:11. It’s a journey to find your way home and you would be glad that your higher self is right there waiting with a big smile and a big hug.
My final thought:
Always believe in yourself, that’s what this journey taught me because LOVE MAKE BELIEVE ❤️❤️
