What gifts can we offer others besides money?
The first thing that comes to mind when helping others is giving money. But they may not need money; they may need something else.
Ten gifts you can give people.
The gift of opening a door for someone.
As I exited Steak and Shake, a couple of women were behind me. They had a child and bags in their arms. I took the time to hold the door open for them. Their faces lit up with smiles and appreciation.
Many times, people held the door open for me as I was entering the building. It always made me feel special.
The gift of a smile.
You may be greeted with words, but it is not the same as being greeted by someone who has a smile on their face. Words can be programmed, but a smile is genuine. You know they are happy to see you.
The gift of an encouraging word.
At times, we may be so discouraged with our circumstances that we feel like giving up. Then someone gives that word of encouragement. It is the words that you needed to keep you from sinking further into despair.
The gift of a lending ear.
There is a time to speak and a time to listen Ecclesiastes 3:7. A person may not need advice. They may need someone to listen to their problems. After I share a burden that I have been carrying, the load seems lighter.
The gift of lending a hand.
A young mother may need help with her children. A couple of hours of babysitting service may help her cope with stress. A caregiver may need a break from caring for a patient.
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The gift of being a friend.
Throughout my life, I've encountered many acquaintances. But few friends. A true friend will step forward in times of need, offering support and comfort when you feel most vulnerable.
They embrace you wholeheartedly, accepting your flaws and imperfections without hesitation. A genuine friend loves you unconditionally, standing by your side through thick and thin, celebrating your joys and comforting you in your sorrows.
To be a true friend, sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone.
The gift of a prayer.
Words may not comfort at times. Listening to a friend’s problem may not help. When we do all we can, and it doesn’t help. There is still something we can do. Pray for that person. God knows how to comfort and help.
The gift of a hug.
Sometimes, hugging a person brings more comfort than words or deeds—just the touch of someone being close to you.
The gift of time.
I have friends who have been widows for a couple of years. In our conversations, I sense their loneliness. Many people are overwhelmed with the loss of their spouse.
We cannot replace a spouse, but sharing your time can help. They may need someone to share their grief with.
The gift of a kiss.
I had just received a phone call from my sister. She said my mother was about to pass. It was the middle of the night. I rushed to get dressed. I was hoping I would arrive in time to say goodbye. As my husband and I reached my sister’s home, her yard was full of my family’s cars.
All of my siblings lived closer to my sister, the caregiver, than I did. As I approached my mother’s bed, I saw she was still lucid. My older sister and I stood over her bed. Each of us was holding my mother’s hand.
A few moments later, my mother drew my hand toward her mouth. She kissed the back of my hand.
I knew my mother loved all her children, but she didn’t show outward affection.
One of the most heartfelt gifts I ever received from my mother was the simple kiss. It reminded me of her love.
Then Peter said, "I have no silver or gold, but what I do have, I give you." Acts 3:6 (KJV)
