Dimension 23
2023 coming to an end or is at its end, what a beautiful and traumatic year it was, Gave a little detail about the first 6 Months of my life this year take a look at that here DUO YEARS. Now On with the show.
To be honest I only did a little this year, I didn’t help out as much as I wanted to, Yeah I got recognized by organizations, and even got Nominated for a Student Award I didn’t get.
Finally, I had a job I’ve always wanted, but having it wasn’t as much as enjoying it, Yes the money to get my wants were being produced but the time and energy it took from me.
The list this year isn’t as scrumptious as last year, but all the same, like always grab a bottle of water and ponder the question “How Fa”
- Build my relationship with God:
I have this tendency to depend on myself a lot, for the slightest mishap I try to solve the problem myself, I also tend to be sin-conscious of little things and in constant doubt of myself, if I’m being honest I didn’t build my connection myself I had help. One random day walking to the basketball court I met a sister who led me to Christ Embassy. And oh my God it has been life-changing I got to meet and network with young adults like me that think alike blasting and manifesting in tongues, gosh you had to be there. Now my life is way better than it used to be, I enrolled in the foundation school which opened my eyes more about sin and how it has been used to hold Christians. Life is sweet but with JESUS at the center is sweeter — Victor Eyo. I’m still not rapture-ready as I tend to fluctuate from time to time trying so hard to depend on myself, but I’m grateful to God and wouldn’t have my life any other way.
My very first Soul I won.
2. Eliminate fear/Anxiety:
Well not much to say here, i had constant fear about everything, even opening up to people, or having full-on conversations with them Although I did find a way to hide it most of the time it affected me even in my workspace. I used to get scared when I was given important tasks that I might mess them up or fail in the most degrading way. But this year said never again. I gathered courage and would talk to any female that happened to be my spec, Let’s be honest talking to random women has to be the hardest and greatest task known to man. The constant “No” and L’s taking when trying to talk to them was helpful but it also brought this “IDGAF” lifestyle in me. Oh well, I managed to reduce the anxiety bar a little.
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3. Stop Procrastination:
Yeah!! I haven’t stopped. I procrastinate at any chance I get.
4. Build my Body:
Leemao, Starting the year I finished a workout program twice, hit the gym, made gym bros, chest came out a bit. Then comes Ember month, frustration, exams, and debts. Spirit of looking like the Dyawne Johnson just died out. But I hope to pick it up in 2024.
5. Find my path in tech:
The Highlight of the year, Only this year I’ve been a Writer, Digital Marketer, Project Manager, and Community Manager, Taken courses on VFX(Yes I was learning how to make animations they use in green screens), Sales and Marketing, even tried robotics. Why one might ask? First off I plan on becoming JOAT but dang it’s stressful, would go 72 hours trying to complete a course. Secondly, I didn’t want a situation where I didn’t test my capabilities or worse chose the wrong path. Used the year and I’m back to programming. Project Management was fun but mehn writing reports and handling human beings was just stressful i rather be the human they manage. Well, I’ve found my path.
6. Make Money:
If you’ve been reading my articles you would notice I mention a name most times “Dan_el” Well all I can say is I have great respect for this man as he is the person who brought me into the tech space. I read a lot about what he writes and as someone who admires someone you tend to either want to be that person or better than that person. While reading one of his articles, he wrote about being independent and I decided to “well” act that way. This year I told my parents not to bother themselves with my well-being since I still had 3 years in the university i proposed they only worry about School Fees and Textbooks since they’re related to school. Well, I’m pleased to announce “I no do again”, wait till I’m done with school, why am I rushing (side eye) Once I’m done I’ll become an independent man. Because half the money I made this year went into school and food. Lol back to the main subject. I did make a lot of money this year I made more money this year than any other making over 1000$. Invested a lot and watched my investments grow, also got something for the parents for the first time with my own money. I am happy, was able to contribute a lot to the ministry.
7. Relationship:
Well, this year I didn’t get into any relationship, I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong, but ever had a beautiful conversation with a female creature for months and getting drawn into this person’s world you find yourself reaching for your phone full-time just to search for that particular contact? And then the moment you decide to man up and confess your feelings the convos start becoming a bore, almost like you’re bothering the person and you just get lost in thoughts.
Little thing I cooked in June, couldn’t complete it though.
Finally, while it’s nearly impossible to predict 2024 outcomes, I face it with a sense of optimism but like always WAGMI. I’m grateful to my community, friends, and family for being a part of 2023. I didn’t lose anyone I’m forever grateful to God for that. Until next time farewell.
