Friendships are not permanent
but I still cherish it.
“There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.” — Thomas Aquinas
The older I get, the more I realize not all friendships have to end in a dramatic way like in the movies, arguing in the rain, fighting for the same guy’s attention or pulling hairs at the prom. It just fades away silently without anybody’s notice.
Suddenly, we have new friends, new colleagues, and we eventually are not each others’ priorities anymore. We just stopped sharing, chatting and updating each other about what’s going on in our life. Our world just stopped colliding and started detaching like we have never met each other before. This feeling is like the puzzle I spent whole night working hard has fallen apart and scattered all over the place.
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I hate to admit it but I have accepted the fact that not all friendships are permanent. Friends are just like passersby accompanying us through some phases not accompanying us through our entire lives.
But sometimes I would like to think about my old friends, old time, old memories. When I see those videos about friendships I will think that used to be us. I still cherish that we were friends for days, weeks, months, years and even decades. I’m grateful that you could accompany me through my lowest and my highest. I have learnt so many things from you.
PS: This is my secret account so my friends don’t know this but I still hope they will see it.
To my old friends: IFFFF you’re reading it, I want to tell you I still have our screenshots, videos, your birthday reminders are still in my calendar and you’re still in my story highlights.I remember because of the time zones, tuitions we rarely went online at the same time but we still planned to recreate a lot of trends hahah. But I still miss staying up late just to chat with yall.Idk we will meet each other again or not (probably never cuz we’re not following each other anymore) but i wish to meet yall again, I have so many things to tell yall now.
MWAHHHHHHH take care and best of luck.
