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4 min readDec 27, 2024

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Some books pass through our lives like a gentle breeze, while others stay with us like flesh and blood. They’re not just words on paper, but pieces of our very existence. That’s what I felt reading Paul Kalanithi’s β€œWhen Breath Becomes Air” β€” an autobiography written in the final months of a young neurosurgeon’s life.

In both art and medicine, the boundary between life and death maintains a strange fragility. Kalanithi shows us this through every page of his book. As a doctor, he understood death scientifically. But as a writer, he gave us profound insights into the meaning of life. This reminds me of an old French proverb: β€œEverything comes from the heart.”

Literature isn’t just about stringing words together β€” it’s the art of distilling human experience through the lens of emotion. When Kalanithi wrote about his final days, he wasn’t just documenting lung cancer or medical challenges. He wrote about love, unfulfilled dreams, and becoming a father in his last months. He processed every experience through what I call the β€œheart filter” β€” that unique combination of emotion, knowledge, and human understanding.

The interesting thing about literature is that it operates on multiple levels simultaneously. On the surface, it tells stories β€” about a doctor facing death, about lovers in ancient Vietnamese poetry, about soldiers returning from war in Nguyen Khai’s stories. But beneath this narrative layer, it’s conducting a deep exploration into the nature of existence.

Consider how Kalanithi describes the moment he realized he would become a father while battling illness: β€œI couldn’t help but wonder: what would happen to this child? Would they remember me? Would I live long enough to see them born?” These questions echo the same yearning we find in Nguyen Du’s poetry: β€œThree hundred years hence, who will shed tears for me?” Both are asking fundamental questions about existence and the longing to be remembered.

In β€œA Hanoi Person,” when the character Dung visits the mother of his fallen friend, carrying the guilt and anguish of a survivor, it mirrors Kalanithi’s encounters with his patients after his diagnosis. Both situations show how literature captures not just events, but complex emotional dynamics β€” guilt, grief, and sometimes unexpected solace β€” that make us human.

This kind of literature demands something from its readers. Just as a beautiful piece of music becomes meaningless to someone who can’t hear the relationships between notes, literary depth is only accessible to readers willing to open their hearts. This isn’t about intelligence or education β€” it’s about readiness to face life’s big questions.

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In an age of automation and artificial intelligence, some might argue that such deep experiences are becoming less relevant. But I believe the opposite. Precisely because our world is increasingly digitized, we need works like β€œWhen Breath Becomes Air” to remind us what it means to be human.

When Kalanithi writes β€œI turned to literature not because it could heal. Words can only preserve,” he touches the core purpose of literature. It’s not just a tool for entertainment or education, but a means to preserve and understand the very essence of our humanity.

The heart, in literature as in life, isn’t just an organ for feeling β€” it’s an organ for understanding. It helps us see not just death in life, but life in death. And as long as humans yearn to understand themselves, each other, and the meaning of existence, literature will continue to matter.

Consider how Vietnamese literature has long grappled with these universal themes. Nguyen Du’s characters face mortality and injustice with a dignity that resonates with Kalanithi’s own journey. The mother in Nguyen Khai’s story who comforts her son’s friend instead of seeking comfort herself shows the same transcendent humanity that Kalanithi discovered in his final months β€” the ability to find meaning beyond personal suffering.

In our rush toward technological advancement, we sometimes forget that the most sophisticated tool for understanding human experience isn’t a computer or an AI β€” it’s the written word guided by the human heart. This is what makes literature timeless. Whether it’s a 19th-century Vietnamese poem or a 21st-century medical memoir, literature continues to illuminate what it means to be fully human.

The power of literature lies not in its ability to solve problems or provide answers, but in its capacity to help us ask better questions about our existence. When we read Kalanithi’s reflections on mortality or Nguyen Du’s meditations on fate, we’re not just consuming stories β€” we’re participating in humanity’s ongoing dialogue about the meaning of life.

As we navigate an increasingly complex world, perhaps what we need most isn’t more information, but deeper understanding. Literature, with its unique ability to capture the full spectrum of human experience, remains our most powerful tool for achieving this understanding. It reminds us that being human isn’t just about living β€” it’s about understanding life in all its beauty and tragedy.

2024.12.27

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Henry Ng
Henry Ng

Written by Henry Ng

I’m a Data Scientist, Developer, Coder, and amateur Writer. Inspiring the world through Personal Development and Improve Yourself.