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My Ciara Diaries (Part Two)
My diary entries over the years define my love-and-hate relationship as a fan girl for the very passionate woman that Ciara is. Sometimes we hate people who are a self-reflection of who we are. As I’ve grown to understand the need for gender equality and feminism, I’ve realized that even as a traditional woman in her marriage, Ciara represents the blended family and what a modern-day woman is, and that’s why we love to watch her.
December 13, 2013
“I miss Ciara’s music. Now I’m stuck with Miley music. *sigh*.”
Flash Forward: to March 15, 2023, and I am a massive fan of Miley Cyrus and Ciara, and they both embrace their femineity in a very feminist-type way. They both display vulnerability which eludes to confidence at the highest level of performance and stage presence.
August 14, 2014
“I don’t understand these women singers like Alicia Keys and Ciara… they’re both so pretty and talented and can have any guy they want…why did they choose men with multiple kids and baby moms? These men have something I’m missing. Lol, maybe they were good in bed lol. It blinds women.”
Flash forward: to March 15, 2023; as women, we all wanted them to end up with someone who we believed they were worth, but what I’ve learned over the years is how humble and grounded both women genuinely…
