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The Pause Button
It’s good to be back, Medium.
After a long hiatus, I’m back. I missed writing regularly, but I needed to prioritize taking care of myself and my family first.
Looking inward, I knew that taking a break would be the best for my mental health and for my writing.
My son is now attending Maine Arts Academy, a charter school that specializes in music, visual art, dance, photography, theater and writing. He’s a thriving tenth grader and chose the musical path. It makes sense, since it’s runs strong in his family. He takes guitar and piano lessons along with with the core subjects.
My husband had major spinal fusion surgery in his neck, and thankfully made a smooth and miraculous recovery. I have so much to be thankful for.
All the while, my husband and I have stepped into the elder caregiver role. My mother-in-law is frail now, requiring frequent and often invasive medical procedures. We watch as a once spunky, unflappble woman becomes increasingly anxious by the day.
Aging is inevitable, but the maladies that come with it peck away at on a person. It must be incredibly frustrating for her to not be able to do the activities she once loved.
I see the same in my parents, as my mother had her knee replacement. She’s always been a strong person, so I took it for granted…
