#randomthoughts

Be like today is going to be solemn for me because the stories I will be writing about might get you over thinking but pls bear with me. Some days are just like that.

Last week or so... I saw a screenshot here of a post, the screenshot was berating women who have kids, na woman oo. She was basically telling women in childbearing age to let doctors sew their towtow tighter after the episiotomy done so they can satisfy their husbands. They tagged it one name I refused to remember. She said... na why men they go out after their wives don born, the place too wide and no grip. The way my annoyance rise no good. I could not even put a comment on that post because I was so angry. So after giving birth and surviving the labour room na to sew towtow tight so man no go go out? Who women offend?
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But I also know this is the mindset of most people concerning the tears women get during labour. I have heard it before so that post gave me a deja vu moment.
Ted pregnancy was extra large (dont know why I dont have pictures of my pregnancies even. Maybe because it was always an out of body experience for me). Doctors actually thought I was carrying twins or triplets but everytime dey check they can't see multiple babies oo. The guy fold all over my womb. Infact when they were sure na one pikin, I was put on admission and check for pregnancy induce diabetes. He was that large that walking was difficult
So imagine having such baby vaginally. As na my fourth pregnancy and I have had all same way, it could go but not without me having the worst of tears. I…