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solitudesoul

WELCOME TO WOMANHOOD

2 min readOct 14, 2025

Since last one month I m officially student at cummins college for WOMEN!! So I can declare myself as the one suitable to write a blog on this.

So the story goes back to lockdown when I entered new dramatic phase, turning into a teenage girlie, wannabe a baddie with tons of male friends. I m not sure if any girl relates with me or not. but this is my story so judgements are allowed. I always used to compare girls friendship with the boys have. it was all comparative mindset all the time. i have always planned and imagined a lot about my college life. the imaginative today at this point makes me burst out with laughter. seriously the girl with many male friends ended up in a girls college. woahh!!!

To all my school friends even though after getting top college. I used to share my sorrow through my expressions, expecting the toxic, judgemental, hateful, bitchy girlhood here.

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but wait…

There’s a twist! yeah I m still struggling to make friends here in my class. but still at least I haven't found anyone jealous, bitchy and what not negative mindset I was here with. a big nooo..

here though first week was quite depressing sitting alone and syncing my vibe with anyone . living in hostel my life seems lively these day. I m what I am around my girlies. I dont think about how I look? how I m behaving at a particular point? my sorrow is their sorrow, my happiness is their joyful moment as well.

I like getting ready more than ever here coz the compliments my girlies give me are more cherrishable than when a guy does. I can be ME without any judgements around them.

And yaaa I m loving the new phase started in my life THE WOMANHOOD.

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