Pisces & Cancer Love Match
Pisces and Cancer Compatibility
To create Pisces and Cancer compatibility you have to deal with your many differences.
However one of those differences is the one that will make or break a Pisces and Cancer relationship.
It is the number difference between your Sun Signs.
Pisces (12) — Cancer (4) = 8.
Your core difference is 8.
Number 8 is how you use your power. You direct your emotional energy (passion) to get things done in different ways. So you use your power for different purposes and in a different style.
Here’s how:
Cancer.
You are given the power to innovate when you are creative.
Pisces.
You are given the power to find balance when you see the big picture.
It is crucial to understand.
To release these powers, Pisces and Cancer need to think, but in different ways.
To be compatible you have to work with this.
Cancer needs to think about how they can enjoy their future. Your power to innovate comes when you are enjoying your life.
Pisces needs to gain insight by including many points of view. Your power to find balance comes when you expand your horizons.
Unless you sort this out, there is going to be a clash.
How you can use this difference to empower each other and to create a great relationship.
The key to Pisces and Cancer compatibility is:
Do NOT expect your partner to use their emotional energy the way you do. They won’t.
Find out what they are passionate about. Ask how they use emotional energy to get things done successfully? What do they look for in negotiation or intimacy?
Then sit back, listen and learn. This is not light stuff. It is often an intense difference. What they say will challenge you. But it will be worth it. It will show you new ways to be powerful.
When they have finished, they are usually open to hearing what you have to share. Then you can develop new ways of sharing that create rapid change and growth.
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I have clients who have done this in seminars in front of a large group. When one tells the other how they need to change, the partner withdraws. The body language is clearly resisting.
When one asks the other what motivates them, they both lean in and open up. The shift is dramatic and beautiful to watch. It is instant Cancer and Pisces compatibility.
When it does not happen this way:
Pisces compromises their beliefs. Cancer becomes rebellious.
Cancer is antisocial. Pisces fears the long-term consequences.
It is like a battle between an over idealistic teenager and a priest who come from fear.
You each lose power and descend into protecting your interests at all costs.
How you can turn this around.
You heal this issue by using it to improve the way you both operate.
Aim for the most positive outcome. Discover how you can empower your partner, without giving away your power and passion.
Take time to get to the essence of your gut feelings with each other. Be constructive, not destructive. The more you find new solutions, the more it makes sense to be together.
When you first meet, go to a place where you can be authentic. Ask your new interest what motivates them. Listen, share what works for you when they are done, and work on win-win options. You will soon know if you want to go further. You find you discover more of what it takes to be truly powerful.
If you have been together for a while, do the same process whenever you can. It will move you both to the next level of your relationship.
What you offer each other.
Pisces helps Cancer to appreciate the big picture. This gives Cancer a true sense of balance.
Cancer helps Pisces to be awake of life’s joys. This allows Pisces to relax and be involved.
You become a couple who can break free of past limitations.
With a difference of 8, you share a core talent.
That is to live an empowered life.
As you share your power, you develop a deep insight into what synergy really is. With this, you can create partnerships that thrive.
The more you empower each other, the closer your bond becomes.
Then Pisces and Cancer is a great couple in any project that creates new ways of living life.
The simple steps above are the key to all this happening.
If this is a challenge for you, or you want to take it to the next level then, contact me or one of my many associates
