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Undesirable

What makes you think that you are undesirable?

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“The fact that you’re struggling doesn’t make you a burden. It doesn’t make you unloveable or undesirable or undeserving of care. It doesn’t make you to much or too sensitive or too needy. It makes you human. Everyone struggles. Everyone has a difficult time coping, and at times, we all fall apart. During these times, we aren’t always easy to be around, and that’s okay. Noone is easy to be around one hundred percent of the time.” Positivity of life.com Instagram

What makes you think that you are undesirable?

Most people feel that they are undesirable in a lot of ways. What makes a person feel undesirable is rejection, low self-esteem, talking negatively over one’s self and depression, just to name a few. I thought for years that I was unattractive because of childhood and young adult trauma.

What has happened in your life that made you come to this conclusion?

Before I answer this question, let’s take a closer look at the word undesirable. The definition of undesirable is as follows “not wanted or desirable because harmful, objectionable, or unpleasant. A person considered to be objectionable in some way.” Dictionary.com

Written by Theresa Marie⁠

Someone appreciates everything about you that someone else took for granted.