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Mary Arciero

Mary Arciero

As a fellow human being and spiritual guide, I share poems and essays to connect with others and support them on this journey called life.

Craving Emotional Freedom? Try Tapping

3 min readMar 8, 2026

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When I was a teacher and stressed out of my mind, my friend told me she just learned about this awesome technique called EFT (tapping). It alleviates stress, depression, and anxiety, you say? It can help with PTSD, insomnia, chronic pain, and more, you say? Say no more, show me the way!

When I finally checked out the link she sent me, I was immediately skeptical. It seemed too simple at first — tapping these “random” places on my face and upper body while saying what was on my mind just seemed silly. But after just a few minutes…it was working. It was working pretty freaking well. I felt more relaxed and peaceful than I had all school year. It was that “I’m a teacher on summer break” feeling…almost.

And over the years, my love affair for tapping has just grown and grown. I’ve used it to work on everything under the sun: anxiety, depression, stress, anger, sadness, grief, shame, releasing toxic friends, betrayal, regret, physical pain, fatigue, procrastination, old childhood wounds, and the list literally goes on. Emotional freedom never felt like an attainable thing, but now it’s something I can return to again and again.

And with ten years of personal experience under my belt, I’ve spent the past three years or so incorporating this amazing method with some of my clients. The results are nothing short of fascinating — a huge shift from emotional suffering to emotional freedom. What can I say? I’m in love with it!

Ok so what IS EFT?

It stands for Emotional Freedom Technique. It involves tapping different acupressure points that coincide with energetic meridians in the body as you focus on a specific memory, physical sensation, or emotion.

Essentially, whenever we experience something negative, our bodies and energetic systems feel the stress of it. If we don’t fully release the stress and its energetic leftovers, it stays stuck in our bodies and contributes to an overactive sympathetic nervous system (the fight-or-flight part). This excessive stress and imbalanced nervous system contribute to all sorts of physical and mental ailments. Tapping on these acupressure points helps to release the stuck energy, enabling us to fully let go and feel better.

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For an experience and to learn more about the points, check out this YouTube video I made.

That sounds cool and all, but what is the evidence?

Although we don’t understand every single detail about why it works yet, the scientific research coming out for EFT is impressive. Here is some of what’s available to us:

Bottom line — you gotta try it

Maybe you’ll do it and feel silly, never wanting to repeat it. Maybe you’ll try it and fall in love like I have, wishing you had discovered it sooner. The main takeaway is: don’t knock it til you try it. It just might change your life, in the best way possible. =)

Resources to Support Your Journey

Satisfy the Soul Podcast — a spiritual health and happiness podcast exploring the highs and lows of the human experience. Listen now on: Spotify, Amazon, Apple, Rss.com, or anywhere else you get your podcasts.

Mary Arciero’s YouTube channel — a range of videos to support you holistically including guided meditations, yoga classes, exercise routines, and more

Contact me for a free discussion if you’re seeking guidance on your spiritual journey.

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Mary Arciero
Mary Arciero

As a fellow human being and spiritual guide, I share poems and essays to connect with others and support them on this journey called life.