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On the Day My Penis Worked Again
If you’re laughing, good — keep reading, you might be the one who needs to hear this.
If you could have a meaningful, positive impact on just one person, would that be worth a little embarrassment?
That’s the question I asked myself before writing this.
And here’s my answer:
My penis works again — because I had the courage to ask for help.
I’m risking some embarrassment in front of about 5,000 people. But I’m doing it to help one person. Just one.
And honestly? That’s a trade I’m proud to make — especially because I already had the hard conversations with my friends and family. I know I’m not alone.
But here’s where it gets interesting: if ten of us told our stories, this wouldn’t just add up — it would multiply.
That kind of openness? It spreads. Exponentially.
The Story
I wasn’t prepared for the aftermath of having my prostate removed in 2018. No one explained what life without a prostate would really mean — not in the way I needed to hear it.
And for many men, that life includes a penis that doesn’t function quite the same anymore.




