Uncomfortable truths about personal growth
We all have been through tough times in life and I think that is the time when people actually grow. People grow in pain rather than in peace. Peace don’t teach the real you , peace will only make you lazy. Pain will let you find the real you , the real people you can trust on. The real peace from the pain. From years we are in denial mode not accepting the things , the real things that actually matters.
Everyone should go through these once atleast in their lifetime . Things happen and it happens for good. God make you fall and he make sure that you rise way above. For eg. the pendulum in order to keep going it has to first swing back then it comes forward. The more it goes back the more it comes forward. That’s how it works. It has to see all the situation of falling apart as well as moving forward. It gives itself the energy to move forward. Life works on a similar ground.
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There are 5 uncomfortable truths we can talk about here, the list can go on but these are some important from my point of view:
- Pain is must to understand yourself.
- Mistakes are important to make to set strict boundary.
- Everything is temporary.
- Detachment from things are important to protect your peace.
- True happiness resides in the sacrifice of worldly pleasures.
To explain the 5th point I’ll take an example there is a farmer he want to do farming will he sacrifice high quality seeds or low quality seeds? To be successful he will sacrifice high quality seeds. Very simple . That’s what I’m trying to explain. “Sukh k tyag mei hi sukh ka nivaas hai”.
