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Tabassum Nisar

Tabassum Nisar

17+ Years in Tech | Sharing practical lessons on career growth, productivity, AI & building a meaningful life | 9-5 Job | Mom to 2 | Organising Enthusiast...

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Raising Tech-Smart, Not Tech-Addicted: A Mom’s Guide to Digital Balance

5 min readDec 17, 2025

“Mumma, can I just finish this one last video?”

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That’s how most of my evenings used to begin. The laptop is still open on my dining table, Teams notifications pinging, dinner half-cooked and my 10-year-old’s eyes glued to the mobile.

At first, I brushed it off. After all, I was a mom in IT, how could I deny technology when my entire career was built on it? But slowly, I started noticing the subtle signs for my kid like shorter attention spans, endless scrolling, emotional meltdowns when asked to switch off. It wasn’t just my child who was getting hooked… I was too.

That moment was my wake-up call. I realized that in my pursuit to balance motherhood and my career, I was unknowingly allowing digital chaos to blur the boundaries at home. That’s when my journey toward raising tech-smart, not tech-addicted kids truly began.

The IT Mom Puzzle

Being a working mom in tech is a double-edged sword.
On one hand, you understand how transformative technology can be: from learning platforms to productivity tools that make remote work possible. On the other, you see firsthand how tech can easily turn from empowering to enslaving.

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Tabassum Nisar
Tabassum Nisar

Written by Tabassum Nisar

17+ Years in Tech | Sharing practical lessons on career growth, productivity, AI & building a meaningful life | 9-5 Job | Mom to 2 | Organising Enthusiast...