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Don’t Date Her Until You Make These 3 Relationship Boundaries Clear
The first few months of dating are an important period when both partners are learning about each other, forming expectations, and establishing patterns.
That is the time to communicate your values, establish healthy boundaries, and understand what both of you expect from the relationship.
Do not confuse love with compliance or believe that constantly pleasing your partner is the only way to keep her.
Most men walk down the aisle completely unprepared. Not financially, emotionally, or psychologically. They have no idea that long before the wedding, back when they were still dating, they had already signed a contract through their behaviour.
That contract became the foundation of their marriage before the ring, before the vows, and before everything else. The problem is that most men sign it without even realizing it exists.
The first six months of dating can shape the future of a relationship and, eventually, the marriage. This happens long before she tries on the wedding dress or you buy the ring.
During the early stages of a relationship, the brain experiences increased dopamine activity and other chemical changes associated with romantic attraction. This period is often associated with limerence, an…
