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Don’t pretend to be younger than you really are. Not only will it backfire, it also won’t work as well as you think.
Don’t compare yourself to younger women. 30 isn’t even really old, and you are just as beautiful and just as deserving of love and attention as women in their 20s.
There’s nothing wrong with dating younger men, but make sure you know what you want. Avoid creating a power imbalance if ever you start a relationship with a partner who is younger than you.
Dress however you want, as long as you feel good and comfortable. Don’t let anyone tell you certain clothes or fashion styles are off limits because you’re now over 30.
It’s never too late to find love. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.