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RandyZander

Former military information officer, decades overseas. Randy's chief occupations are photography, chess, travel, and writing about sex. Click "About" for more.

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The Joy of Sex (for One)

Self love is better than no love

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For most men, their sex life begins at puberty and ends at death. Once the testicles start pumping sex hormones into a man’s body, they usually don’t totally stop pumping until the owner dies.

Most women, on the other hand, also begin wanting sex somewhere around their puberty. But after menopause, a woman’s desire drops off rapidly. Much more rapidly than a typical man.

That doesn’t happen with all women, of course. But it does with most. I’ve learned that post-menopausal ladies with an energetic sex drive are a rare treasure, indeed.

That’s the chief reason the world is full of horny old men.

One thing a man wants to avoid is becoming a whiny old man who pleads and begs women for sexual attention. You’re not doing yourself any favors by lowering yourself to presenting that image to women. You don’t want pity — you want to be desired.

Be the Strong, Stoic Man

Women don’t want to hear you whining about your miserable priapic condition.

Instead, resolve to take care of yourself — and be quiet about it.

Nobody needs to hear about your pathetic sexual wants and needs. Not unless and until she has developed an intimate relationship…

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RandyZander
RandyZander

Written by RandyZander

Former military information officer, decades overseas. Randy's chief occupations are photography, chess, travel, and writing about sex. Click "About" for more.