How to present yourself?
Oh sorry! but I really do not know about it. I am not a preacher for rules or customs or obligations but yes, I do believe that there is nothing more comfortable than to be in your own skin.
It is well known to everyone that whether you change for others or not; in any case; you would be judged by others.
You will be tagged as adamant and rebellious, if you choose to go against the wishes of your near ones, nevertheless you can be obedient or submissive if you choose to yield to them.
Anyone can let you know how to do a presentation of your work but the rules of the society vary from custom to custom and person to person. In addition, life has different set of rules for different players.
Take a deep breath and enjoy the rules that God has set for you, may be sometimes, some things may take a longer way to reach you but it will surely find its way, if you deserve it.
It is not easy to follow this rule in practical and real life and I also got baffled about my decision whether to pursue further without any delay or should I take a pause and introspect for some time. So, sometimes i get seriously inane and insane without thinking about the repercussions but after sometime when the wind gets over, I feel refreshed and recharged.
Ok, let’s get to the second method and that needs your perseverance and dedication but the most important is patience which I really don’t have for many things.
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Still, there comes a time when your tenacity will not allow you to feel dejected and that one voice of your inner thoughts can overcome all fears of your mind.
Smile. Get up. Take a walk. Listen some music. Play cards or games with friends or family. Eat somewhere outside or cook for yourself. Do the cleaning of your unorganised wardrobe. Meditate. Log off from all your social mediums. Enjoy the nature. (OR You can choose any means that makes you feel relieved.)
Since you are recharged and relaxed now, get up and get ready for your next adventure that may lead you to anywhere i.e. to your success or may be to your failure. Never dishearten yourself. You are the best motivator for you. Your life is always a precedent for YOU. You cannot survive if you feel negative about yourself because your mind can feel every aura of your body and negativity will attract negative vibes whereas positivity will attract positive vibes only.
All you need to do is to know how to balance your duties well and how to cope with the adverse or the plus points of it. You are the incharge of your life.
There is no harm in shedding some tears when you feel low or depressed but get up after that phase is over.
Keep smiling whenever you can and make your life useful to someone as you may not get another chance for it.
Your one action may help someone in the dire need OR it may make their worst day in a contended day.
Keep spreading smiles as it is FREE OF COST and be confident about what you are. Be positive in your life as I believe that everything happens for a reason in our lives.
