Where should I start?
To all my new pen pal, wishing you a great new hopeful beginning 2023. We have survived, crossed hard times together, understood that Life is very short. Things were not so easy for everyone! But still there is something we all cling to — Hope. There is something we believe in — Tomorrow. There is something we wish for — Love. So everything is up right here — in our mind!
Let us understand what our mind thinks. Understanding people around helps you travel this world. Understanding yourself helps in being with you at peace. Later is much more important than the former. All that you need to understand is what your mind and heart really need! Of course, we will come to “want” checklist later.
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Never take resolutions you cant abide or follow. All you need to understand is just you. Come, Let’s give it a try. Take a sheet of paper or Draw a Table in your mind with 2 columns. One, the things you have and second, you don’t. It would be great if not only materialistic. Lemme start. I have good family, understanding friends, basic needs — food, shelter, clothing and of course a work to earn. That I don’t? — (written in silence 🤫). Make your list! By now, you know how blessed you are — see those who do not have that ones you have in column1. you also know what you really need — from column2. Hope you haven’t added the most expensive things in the world 🙂. Not something wrong in writing them down, but the effort you put in 2023 needs to be proportionate to the ones in column2 🤷♀
You know what you need, now write down why you need it. Without purpose, there is no motivation. Without motivation, there is no effort. Without effort, things are tough. Let your wish not just be a wish. Give your heart and soul to make it Live. Everything is just right up here 🧠 ! Never stand between what you are and what you want to be. Because it is only you blocking the way! Start walking, it’s okay even if you crawl, but do not stand or walk back.
All the very best to everyone who take their step ahead. Understand that every soul in this world takes its own steps daily. Just spread confidence and hope through smile 😊. Hard to see in many! At the least, give them your 🙂 to make them remember that they forgot to smile that day! Someday it would come back to you as a blessing!
