Mans ultimate success: Family
I have coached successful people and unsuccessful people both. And I have found one simple thing which common everywhere; and applicable to all men around the globe irrespective of their race, ethnicity, income and age. Their ultimate life success is defined by their family. If they have a good, happy and complete family or not. And it also includes having taken care of their whole family, each and every person of it. And that is why they dedicate their whole life in building a beautiful and successful family.
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This dream starts early, as each and every boy is given these morals and values from the early childhood to become the ultimate provider. His all dreams and goals are centered to earning money, buying a safe house, get married, take care of wife and children and the whole family. He makes sure that he buys the best house, marry the best girl, take care of her, then provide best possible lifestyle to her, then same goals for the children, be it education or teaching morals, values and ethics. Their goal is to make everyone successful in their family. And they put their relentless energy in making it work. They never forget about their duty to become the ultimate provider.
If you ask your father, he would tell you the same story. Because males don’t know anything else. And their success as a man is highly calculated by how much their family is successful. How are the kids, what they do, how is wife, how is she, and how about parents if they are still there. Is everyone happy? Are they leading a good life or not? If not, they would not question anyone but the man of the family. And because of this reason, the dad/father, the male often becomes arrogant, dominant, aggressive in the family. They want to set a role model for everyone. And when they see it is not happening. They would force you to do something that is right for you. And often, children don’t like it. But, the moment they become adults, fathers, they realise their father were right. They meant something else, they were the protectors, and the providers. They wanted us to become successful and that is why did everything for and to us. So, if you have a difficult relationship with any man in your life or family, understand he is a giver. He is a provider. Try to understand him, and your life will be happier.
