Observations
I don’t like it when people try and “read” me. They shouldn’t have to try like it’s a chore, but be curious enough that they want to read me.
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I want them to enjoy reading me, not skim the surface, they can’t summarize or outline me, I hope I’m more complicated than that. They need to be observant, read between the lines and like the process of doing it.
They can’t be lazy, cut corners or pretend to me know either. They need to be smarter than that. If there is something they don’t know or can’t figure out, they should just break down and ask me instead of assuming or pretending.
I knew a girl who thought she could read me, but all she did was look up my birth dates, which I consider cheating. She was entertaining and expressed herself well with her “observations.” She was a good actress, but I am more than a numerology chart.
I also don’t trust women who love football and question their motives.
