Mall
I hit on a girl from mall and told her she was cute. Before this whole mall stuff with muscle and velocity I had hit and fumbled hard with a girl from tea shop. I was going good and told her she was cute (first time being direct) and all until I fucked up by overdoing a story but I told her that I have anxiety. A failure was necessary for me to get the reality test and to stop living in an illusion. I was progressing but there will be fuckups. THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING I SHOULD FOCUS ON IS Stop caring what random people think of you. It’s always the fear of rejection. It’s like going to gym, you shouldn’t depend on motivation. Just hustle.
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I understand that the golden rules for now are
- Smile and introduce
- Tell her “I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi”
- Acknowledge when it is going awkward
- Polarise with observations like muscle and use a mix of Denmo. Man muscle is born for this PUA stuff.
- In the end when the interaction is going good ask for Instagram or coffee
- If you fuckup just say “I am bad at social interactions but If I didn’t say hi I would be regretting it today”
- In the end say “have a nice day”
Ok that’s about it. I might take a leave tomorrow.
