WHEN YOUR SUGAR DADDY WANTS YOU TO BE EXCLUSIVE
The Sugar Bowl is big and there are lots of Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies to mingle with. Sometimes it’s great to play the field a bit until you find someone you love spending time with, but how do you know when it is time or the right Daddy to be exclusive with? If he is the first one to bring up an Exclusive Arrangement, how do you decide it if is the right decision? Here are some things to consider.
Goals
What are you looking for from an arrangement? Do you have specific goals and desires you hope to achieve in this relationship? Does his budget meet your wants and needs? Is he looking for the same kind of relationship you are (Platonic, Romantic, Sexual, Long Term, Short Term, Public, Private)? Make sure that you are not settling in this relationship simply because he wants it. Of course, if he is Salty, stay far away and do not commit. But what if you are looking for a Big Daddy and the SD you are dating is less than large? Is the relationship good enough to overlook your initial desires? Be honest with yourself!
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Chemistry
Having a connection and a spark with your Daddy is crucial to the success of your arrangement. If he wants to be exclusive and you have a hard time getting excited about spending time with him or taking the relationship to the next level, chances are you are going to feel very uncomfortable and unhappy. There are so many people to meet when sugar dating and you do not want to be stuck in an arrangement that feels stagnant just because he wants to be exclusive and is willing to meet your other needs. If it doesn’t feel right to you, there is someone else out there who is! Allow yourself who makes you LOVE being a Sugar Baby!
Do You Want it?
Even if you have found a Daddy who can meet your needs and make you feel excited and happy, that doesn’t mean that you have to be exclusive. Your end goal can be your own and it does not have to be exclusivity. Are there perks to an exclusive Sugar Arrangement? Of course! Fulfillment in a relationship, a committed SD, and stability are all things that come with and exclusive relationship. However, if you are a free-spirited Baby and don’t want to be tied down to just one SD, it’s okay to say no!
No matter what you choose, make sure that you are making the decision based on what YOU want in your life right now. A great perk of a Sugar Arrangement is the freedom to define the kind of relationship you want to have!
