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The Groom and the Bride

2 min readApr 9, 2024

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The story i wanna share today is of the wedding I went to yesterday.

Groom sent the proposal. The bride saw the picture of him and refused. Reason, the groom had no long hairs but a heavy beard & mustaches in the picture, a holigan she might think of him.

Next day, groom approached the bride, sent a message and asked what was the reason for the refusal. The bride told the reason that “your look seems me like you’re a gangster or a part of it and I don’t like it. I got a little scared.

The boy laughed. Pause. (If a girl refuses no matter what the reason is the results means No. Her family can’t put pressure on her even if she says i don’t like the guy’s look and vice versa.) Her family did the same.

He told her that my background is not like that and you have misunderstood and asked, I want you to reconsider the proposal. A meeting was held and the girl agreed.

Well, a day bride asked that you were shown a lot of proposals, how did you choose me from all of them? How did you know I would be right for you? The boy gave a very simple answer.

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No long praises, no incredible declarations of love.

He said because when I saw you, I felt the feeling “You are the one who is my match.” And I emphasized my parents on this relationship this relationship.

I heard the story but just stucked on the guy’s answer. There’s nothing so specific. A simple story, a simple logic. But is it?

A lot of things will be bothering you here but i want to share one which was bothering me.

Things we thought are simple and USUALL are not really. We’re so used to, i get that feeling when i see you. That we’ve been desensitize to it. The phrase otherwise is still working like a magic between souls. It’s just the bodily eyes & ears that are off.

The Vibes are REAL. The feelings you get on from anyone;from messages, a nearby person whoever he is. They all are real. If you are feeling in a particular way, the WAYS are real but your opinion doesn’t. Remember. Your brain storming doesn’t tell you the whole scenario.

Get the feeling. Ask for it. Don’t Hold it.

Besides Law of Attraction, vibes are also among one of Human powers.

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TASMIYYAH (dr.tasmiafayyazahmed)
TASMIYYAH (dr.tasmiafayyazahmed)

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