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BJ’s ToT-ing Again! For Pride
ToT-ing and singing “Hello new shoes, bye-bye blues”
It’s time, y’all. Not just for another ToT Challenge, this time brought to you by the impeccable and iridescent Brandon Ellrich in salute to and in celebration of (belated) Pride Month, but also to put on some killer footwear for the future.
Why footwear?
Yes, BJ loves shoe pics, but it’s not just because BJ loves a good leg/foot/shoe pic (#fetisheswelcome).
It’s also because sometimes you wear the kind of shoe you think you’re supposed to wear because everyone else tells you it’s the one that looks just right until one day you come to the realization that you never liked those shoes.
I’m not going to spend a lot of time talking about those shoes, but I do have one thing to say about them and then I’ll be done:
Fuck those trash shoes.
The same thing happened with my sexuality. I wore my “just right”, socially-comfortable, culturally-prescribed, ill-fitting sexuality until one day I found something that changed my life, and changed, allowed, and improved the way I love today.
