“We had mutual friends for about a year but never really spoke to each other. Then one faithful day we matched on Tinder. I think it was the first time we noticed something special might be right in front of us.
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Dating can be exhausting and has its own challenges in the gay community. However we just clicked. We’ve been together three and a half years now and we just sent out our wedding invitations! We’ve traveled to Grenada and Riviera Maya Mexico together. We have a house together and even a puppy named Simba.
My advice to single people is always these two points. Have a real conversation with yourself about what you’re looking for and why. Then, try to open your eyes to love in ways you haven’t before. We spend so much time going from bar to bar and city to city but what you really need might just be right in front of you waiting for you to notice.”









