I’m Covered not Aged…
Before judging people’s choices, seek and gather sufficient knowledge about their choice first.
I recently started donning the jilbab and I noticed a lot of people in my immediate environment disliked it not because of valid reasons but for lack of knowledge about its use. On several occasions, I’ve been a victim of judgement from their ignorance and while I overlook it most times, it hurts when it comes from close relations.
If only they took their time to learn more about it or seek clarifications before assuming I’m now boring, “fully knowledgeable” religious-wise or incapable of spending casual fun time with friends and family as usual.
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It’s a lonely journey knowing you can’t bear out your grievances or share how difficult it can be, trying to get better in your Deen because the people around you do not understand. You know the first piece of “advice” you’ll receive is to stop bothering yourself and start “acting your age” — Live freely and be wild.
Lol.
It’s comforting to believe it’ll all work out well in the end though. Stay righteous, remain striving, and you’ll get better at your Deen bi idhnillah 😊
I’m Umm Afif, a Muslimah who shares her thoughts and opinions with no holds barred. You’re welcome to join me on this fun ride ✨🦋
Till I write again, Ma’a Salam.
