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Attachment styles aren’t real
Don’t fall for it
Attachment styles are not real. There, I said it. But before you crucify me, let me explain.
Women change their behavior depending on the guy they are with. There is no fixed attachment style for anyone. Women’s attachment styles change depending on how attractive they think you are. Attachment styles are for people who like to blame women for their own shortcomings in dating. If you do not like your girlfriend’s attachment style, all you have to do is change your behavior. If you want to change your girl from avoidant and nonchalant to anxious and clingy, for example, you must change your behavior.
Don’t worry, I haven’t come here just to tell you about the problem without offering solutions. In this article, I will explain what you should do. But first, please understand and internalize a very simple fact.
There are no inherently good or bad women
Bad women don’t exist. Women only modify their behavior to make themselves feel safe. And sometimes, in order to feel safe in her relationship with you, she decides that she has to step on your neck.
Take gold diggers as an example. I hate it when guys say things like, “She is a gold digger.” Nine times out of ten, she was not like that when she met him. She became a gold…
