The Patience of Coral
If your future self could send you one sentence, what do you hope it would say?
Kilwa Kisiwani on the Swahili Coast (present-day Tanzania)
Tuesday 11th August 1405
The light is wrong this morning.
Not wrong in a way that means ill. I know the difference. The light over this channel has a colour it keeps to at this hour, in August: a kind of pale copper, like the inside of an old lamp. Today it is more grey than copper. A gauze light. A light that cannot decide what it is. I have been watching this channel every morning since the last week of June, which is long enough to know the grain of a thing. The light today is not keeping to its grain.
I do not know what it means. I am trying not to decide too quickly.
You will think me foolish for watching the light this closely. Forgive me. I came to watch the channel, not to speak, and here I am speaking, which surprises me nearly as much as it must surprise you. I have nothing much worth saying. And yet the silence has become very heavy, and sometimes a heavy thing needs setting down, just for a moment, just while the tide reaches the mark on the mangrove root. Just until the adhan calls me home.
These coral steps behind the fish-market smell of salt and dark seaweed and the blood of the morning’s catch. Underneath that smell is coral dust, from my father’s work at the mosque: he is cutting blocks today for the north wall of the Great Mosque, which has been under expansion these two years past. Underneath the coral dust is woodsmoke from the houses behind the market. And underneath everything else is the clean, open smell of the channel itself, which has no name, because it is too large to name. It is the smell of the world going about its work without asking whether anyone is ready.
I am not ready. I come here anyway.
My father cuts coral-rag the way a man cuts when he has understood a thing completely. He knows where to strike so the stone splits clean; he knows the grain of it in his hands before the mallet falls. He did not teach me this, because I am a daughter and not a son, but I have watched him long enough to understand what it is to know something by its grain. I know the grain of this channel now. I know the colour it keeps at this hour. The way the tide stands against the mangrove root when the kaskazi has spent itself and the kusini has not yet arrived.
The kaskazi is gone. It blew itself out weeks ago, the northeast wind, went back to wherever the northeast wind goes when it is finished with us. And the kusini, the southeast wind, has not yet fully settled in from the other direction. So the sea is between two things. It does not know what it is supposed to do. The dhows are few. The harbour is quieter than it will be in October.
October.
(A breath. She steadies herself.)
Forgive me. I was going to tell you about the birds.
There are three birds on the sandbar this morning. There were five yesterday and two the day before. The old woman who mends nets at the far end of the market says birds on the sandbar at dawn tell you how many prayers are needed. Three means: pray and then wait. Two means: pray and then pray again. Five means something is coming whether you pray or not.
I said Bismillah before I looked at the water this morning, because it is right to turn toward God before you turn toward the thing you are actually thinking about. Which makes the watching not entirely a deception. I am mostly honest. You will forgive me for the mostly.
Three birds. I prayed. I am still waiting.
Let me tell you about the cowries, because I am going to have to leave these steps soon and go back to stringing them, and I would rather talk about cowries than think about leaving. My mother strings cowries for the market. I help her. We keep them in a basket woven from palm-strips and we sort them by size: the large ones worth more, the small ones less, and the broken ones ground into daub. I know the weight of a hundred cowries in my hand. I know the sound they make when they knock together in the basket, which is a sound that belongs to home, to the corner of the room where the basket sits, to my mother humming something under her breath while she works. It is a good sound. An ordinary sound. I have been grateful for it this summer, because ordinary sounds hold you to the ground when the rest of you wants to fly up and be foolish.
I have been foolish since the last week of June.
His dhow came in on a Tuesday. It felt like a Tuesday, the way certain days declare themselves before you have reason to remember them. Dates and frankincense from Oman. The dhow sat in the harbour four days while they unloaded, and I walked past it three times before I noticed him.
He was repairing a section of the sail. Up on the yard, balanced like a man born on a mast, which I suppose in some manner he was. And there was a patch in the corner of the lateen sail: a triangle of canvas in a red that was not bright red, nothing so clean as that. A dark red, faded by sun and salt to something between the colour of old rust and the colour of a dried hibiscus flower. He had sewn it himself; you could see the stitching from the quay even at that distance. Large stitches. Practical, not beautiful. But straight.
I noticed the stitching.
(She is embarrassed. A pause.)
You will think me strange. The stitching was straight. The man who sewed it had patience. That was all I was thinking. That was all it was.
We spoke on the third day. He had come to the fish-market for something, salt fish or dried octopus, I cannot be certain which, and his Swahili was halting. Not broken. Halting, like a man who learned words one by one, the way my father cuts coral one block at a time. He had the words for fish and salt and how much and thank you. He had the words for: is this good, is this fresh. And then he had a few other words, words that were not market words, and those words were the ones that stayed.
He said: this harbour is beautiful. And I said: yes, it is. And he said: the light here is, and he did not have the word he wanted in Swahili, so he tried three words in Arabic before he found the one that satisfied him, and the word he chose was something like: gentle. The light here is gentle. And I thought: yes. That is the right word. That is the word for this light, this uncertain copper-grey August light that is not yet sure of itself.
We spoke perhaps twenty sentences in all. I have counted them. I have counted them many times since June. Twenty is probably too many; I think some of what I count are sentences I have since composed, conversations we have not yet had. Twenty is my best honest count.
He said he would return when the winds shifted. He said: Inshallah, with the October dhows. He said it simply, not as a promise exactly, but as a statement of intent, as a prayer already half-addressed to God. Inshallah. God willing. Which means: if God agrees, I will come back. Which means also: I cannot be certain of anything, because the sea belongs to God and not to me.
I know this. I have always known this. I grew up on this coast.
And yet here I am on these steps every morning, watching for a patched red corner in a lateen sail.
(She exhales. It is a long breath, and it carries more than air: the whole weight of the watching, the six weeks of it, the salt of it.)
There. That is the breath I have been breathing since June. I hear myself do it. My mother has not said anything about it. The net-mender has not asked. I am the only one who has noticed, which seems right enough, because I am the only one who knows what the breath is for.
The sun has cleared the houses now. Up on the headland, the Husuni Kubwa catches the light on its coral stone walls, looking out over the channel as it always does, patient and high and concerned with larger matters than girls on fish-market steps. I do not resent this. I understand it.
My mother will be missing me soon. She needs the daub ground before noon. She will ask, gently, where I was, and I will say: I went to watch the channel. And she will say: you watch the channel very often this summer. And I will say: I like the channel in the morning. And she will say nothing more. But she will look at me in the way she has of looking, a way that reaches into places you did not know were visible.
She was young once, my mother. She knows what the channel looks like when a girl is watching it for a reason.
I have told no one. I want you to understand this. Not my mother. Not the girl who sells wrapped fish three stalls from our cowrie-basket, who would listen and sympathise and tell everyone before the evening prayer. Not the old net-mender. Not anyone. The silence around it is the only thing that is entirely mine. If I speak it, it becomes a thing that other people can have opinions about, and I cannot bear their opinions.
What they would say, you know what they would say. A Kilwa girl watching the channel for an Omani sailor she spoke twenty sentences to. That is a story with a known shape. That story ends one of two ways, and one of those ways involves a long wait for nothing, and people would tell me this kindly, and the kindness would be worse than if they said it plainly.
So I say nothing.
The silence is the shape of the love. You cannot see the love, but you can see what it has pushed out of its way to make room for itself: the silence, the watching, the three birds on the sandbar, the October light already composing itself in my head months early, the song.
I have a song. I have never sung it. I composed it in my head in the first week after he left, and it sits there now like a coal kept covered: warm and private and not for anyone. It is not a good song. It only has to work for me, and for me it works. I know where every word is. I could sing it right now if I were alone.
I am almost alone. You do not count. You are barely here, in a way. I am speaking to you the way I sometimes speak to the channel: because the water will not tell anyone, and neither will you.
(She smooths the front of her kanga with both hands.)
Sometimes in the long part of the morning, when there are no dhows and the channel is only itself, no sails, no commerce, just water doing what water does, I try to calculate. I think: he said October. October dhows come from Oman, from the ports of the Hadramawt, from the long sea-roads to the north. A good kaskazi behind a dhow from Oman, the northeast wind just beginning to reassert itself, would bring it here in… I do not know exactly how many days. I do not know his route, how many other harbours he calls at before this one. I do not know if this port is the end of his route or only a stop in the middle of it. I know almost nothing, when I calculate like this. I know he has a sail with a red patch. I know a voice that reaches for words carefully, the way you reach into a basket for cowries in the dark, feeling for the right size.
I know the stitching is straight.
That is what I have. That is the whole of it.
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(She turns back to the channel. The water glitters and settles and glitters again.)
Here is something I have not said to anyone, and I am not sure I should say it even now. I am afraid he does not remember my name.
We did not exchange names formally. There was no moment where it became a proper exchange. He called me nothing and I called him nothing, and his name I do not speak even in my own head because I have composed a name for him out of several things: the word for the colour of the sail-patch, and the word for gentle light, and a third word that is mine alone and has no translation. The name I give him in my head is not his real name. And my name: I told him. I am almost certain I told him. Near the end, when we were both returning to our separate days, I said something and I believe my name was in it. But when I reach back into those twenty sentences to find it, I find it on the edge of things, in the place where I cannot be sure if I remember it or if I have composed the memory I wanted.
He may remember me as: the girl at the fish-market. He may remember me as: the girl who noticed his stitching. He may not remember me at all.
(A beat. She is steadier than you might expect.)
This thought does not stop my feet from coming to these steps.
Which is either loyalty or stubbornness or something so close between the two that Allah himself would have to sort out the difference.
(She reaches into the fold of her kanga and touches the cowrie shells there, counting them without looking, smoothing them one by one.)
My mother needs the daub ground before noon. I should go soon. Five more minutes. The tide is just reaching the mark on the mangrove root where I watch it every morning, the mark I have memorised over six weeks of mornings, and I want to see how it stands at the full point before I leave. It told me something last week, the tide at that mark. Not in words. In the angle of the water, the way it caught the light at a certain moment. Some things are not in words. The sea speaks in a language older than Arabic, older than Swahili, and I have been listening to it all my life, and sometimes I believe I am beginning to understand a very little of what it says.
What it said last week, or what I think it said, was: be patient. Not: he is coming. Not: he is not coming. Only: be patient. Which is what everything says when it does not wish to tell you the truth.
(She is quiet for a moment.)
A thought came to me on these steps a few mornings ago. These things come sometimes when you have been very still for a very long time, when you have stared at the water long enough that the water seems almost to stare back. The thought was this: if the woman I will become, the woman God is still writing in his book, if that woman could reach back through all the years between and give me one sentence, only one sentence, what do I hope she would say?
And my first thought, before I could stop it: I hope she says he stepped off the October dhow. I hope she says he remembered my name. I hope she says there is a house by the mangrove creek, and it is yours and his, and you did not wait in vain.
That was my first thought.
(A longer pause. She looks at her hands.)
But then I caught myself. Because I am nineteen years old and I have already learned one thing about hope, which is that hope with a shape is a thing that can be broken into the exact shape of its own wound. Hope with a shape says: it must be this. The house and the mangrove creek and the name remembered. And if it is not exactly that, if it is not all of that, then the watching was for nothing.
And I do not want to believe the watching was for nothing.
So I corrected myself. And what I corrected myself to was this:
Even if he does not come. Even if the October dhows bring only strangers and dates and the usual goods, and no one aboard knows the word for gentle light: I hope she says I was not a fool for watching. I hope she says it was not nothing, the watching. I hope she says the sea was beautiful those mornings, and that was enough. That it was enough.
That.
(She lets it settle. The water moves. The birds on the sandbar do not move.)
That is what I hope she says.
Not: you won. Not: the sea was kind to you. Only: it was not nothing. Only: the sea was beautiful. Only: enough.
Because here is what you learn, growing up on this coast. The sea takes. Everyone who lives here long enough learns this in the body, the way the body knows things before the mind catches up, the way my father’s hands know the grain of coral. The sea takes ships and it takes sailors and it takes the time of girls who watch from harbour steps. And the sea gives: it brings the dates and the cloth and the porcelain and the gold, and yes, sometimes it brings someone with halting words and straight stitching. But you cannot make the sea bring what you have chosen to need. You can only stand here, in the August morning, in the uncertain light, while the kaskazi is gone and the kusini has not yet arrived, and you can watch.
You can watch very well. You can watch better than anyone. You can know three birds from five. You can know the tide at the mangrove root. You can know the red of a faded sail-patch against the grey of the channel at this hour. You can know all these things and love them and call them yours, and they will not, for all of that, make the dhow come sooner.
This is not despair. I want to be clear, because you might mistake it for despair.
It is only what the sea has always said to the coast, and what the coast has always had to accept. It is the condition. You live here. You love things. The sea decides. You watch. You pray. Inshallah. It is written as it is written.
(She smooths her kanga. She should go. She does not go.)
I do love the sea, though. I should say that plainly, while I am saying things plainly. I love the sea this morning, even restless, even uncertain, even refusing to settle into what it ought to be. It is beautiful. The light is coming through the haze in long soft pieces, falling on the water the way August light does here, not sharp, not clean, just present. Just here. The smell of the fish-market behind me is the smell of everything I have always known: salt and blood and dark green seaweed dragged in with the nets, and underneath it the coral dust from my father’s work, and underneath that the woodsmoke from the houses, and underneath all of it the clean open smell of the channel itself, which has no name because it is too large to name.
I am not ready.
I come here anyway.
That is the stubbornness. My mother says it is her own mother in me, my grandmother whom I never met but who is apparently present in the set of my jaw when I have decided something. I have decided something. I will be here tomorrow morning. And the morning after. I will count the birds and read the tide and look for a red patch in the corner of a lateen sail, and I will say nothing to anyone, and I will carry the song in my head like a banked coal, and I will go home and grind the daub and string the cowries and sit in the corner of the room and listen to the sound they make when they knock together in the basket: that ordinary good sound that holds you to the ground.
I should go.
(She does not go.)
You understand, I am not asking anything of you. I am not asking the sea and I am not asking God and I am not asking you. I came here to watch. I have watched. The channel is restless. The birds have not moved from the sandbar. The tide is at the mark. No sail on the horizon, red-patched or otherwise. No dhow rounding the headland. Just the channel and the light and the smell of the fish-market and the faint sound of a child somewhere in the back streets beginning to cry, and then stopping.
The Dhuhr adhan will come before long. I will go then. I will pray properly, on my knees, with the words that are always the same and therefore always true. And then I will go home and grind the daub and say nothing to my mother about where I have been and why, and she will look at me in that way she has, and I will look back at her with the jaw my grandmother left me, and we will both leave it at that.
And tomorrow morning I will come back to these steps.
He said Inshallah.
The sea will do what the sea does.
These mornings are mine. The three birds on the sandbar are mine. The coal-warmth of the song that lives in my chest, that I have never sung and that perhaps I never will sing: that is mine.
It was not nothing.
I said that.
I want it to be true.
(She looks at the channel. The light shifts on the water. She is still. She is watching. The sea does what the sea does.)
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