Eroticism Alone
So you’re saying, “What is a man doing by talking to women about private female matters?” In my own efforts at understanding women, I’ve researched books by female PhD sexologists and psychologists. I include them by name at the end of this post.
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All of them indicate that a woman should learn from herself, by herself, her own brand of eroticism. Only she can define it as an individual component of her life.
Women don’t need a partner to learn their own erotic nature. If they take their time and make love to themselves, eroticism blooms. “Take their time?”
YES. Enjoy a nice bath. A bit of legal cannabis, a glass of wine. Make-up, as little clothing as possible. Sexy music, candles, mirrors. Tease yourself, edge, give yourself trembling orgasms that make you scream.
*SOURCES
Laurie Mintz, PhD, Becoming Cliterate and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex.
Dr. Emily Nagoski, Come as You Are
Esther Perel PhD, Mating in Captivity
Dr. Lori Brotto, Better Sex Through Mindfulness
