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Dates Aren’t Worth My Data Being Shared
I’ve relied on dating apps, but I need a new strategy in this tech-driven world
A few weeks ago, I decided to re-download Tinder after some time away. I’ve had a gut feeling for a while that my next important romantic connection will happen in March (let’s see if I’m right!), so I wasn’t optimistic about finding a lasting match. But was it too much to hope for some scintillating conversation and maybe a kiss after dinner?
Well, it was, thanks to my 1984-lens of the world. Tinder recently adopted a mandatory verification feature, requiring you to take photos of yourself at different angles to prove you’re a real person. I’ve never had issues with fake accounts on dating apps; maybe this would be less of a problem if dumb horny men would stop immediately swiping right on nearly every profile.
But I do have a problem with billionaire-funded technology receiving multiple photos of my face at different angles.
I deleted the app at once.
I had heard about the unethical backgrounds of both Tinder and Hinge, the apps I’ve found to have sufficient pools of people and seem easiest to use. I begrudgingly continued using them however, as they seemed a necessary evil. All of my many dating experiences, minus two, have arisen from apps…
