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Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

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Old Habits Die Hard

3 min readJun 18, 2025

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Author’s photo of the doorstop rock

I’ve perfected the art of streamlining a lot of things and creating routines, mostly so I don’t have to waste any effort thinking about them. I thought I was being remarkably efficient, but moving after living in the same house for twenty-six years proved that I was blind to how I do some things.

For instance, I didn’t even think about the doorstop rock.

Years and years ago, my younger son brought home a rock that made a perfect doorstop. I put it at the base of the door in my writing room, and it worked really well whenever the wind blew through the room. So, of course, when I moved, I put the rock at the base of my new writing room door. That’s where it belonged, you see.

Never mind that I’d bought a high-pile rug for my writing room and that rug effectively jammed the door open.

Recently, while the windows were wide open, a windstorm arrived and blew the bedroom door shut and startled the everloving daylights out of me.

When my heart returned to a more normal pace, I pondered the problem; how do I keep this door open even if it’s windy?

It took me an embarrassing amount of time to figure out that I could actually move the doorstop rock to the bedroom door instead of my writing room door.

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Robin James
Robin James

Written by Robin James

When I’m not writing my novel I’m writing rants and whatnot. Figured I might as well post them here.

Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

Published in Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.