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            <title><![CDATA[How to Change Your Understanding of Paranoia in 7 Easy Keys  — Part 1]]></title>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="Stalk Yourself’s banner with the company’s official tagline: Be good. Be better. Together.™ Here is How to Improve Emotional Intelligence." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*KjA_uP9KRbZO4138t7M52g.png" /><figcaption>Be good. Be better. Together.™</figcaption></figure><h3>How to Change Your Understanding of Paranoia in 7 Easy Keys 🌅 —</h3><p>We all want to get better and solve our issues, right? Or perhaps we are scared, paralyzed in fear, and want to remove ourselves as quickly as possible from uncomfortable situations: we invoke our flight response, apologize, and move on to the next thing that we don’t want to deal with.</p><p>While it’s alright to fear, and be scared, it shouldn’t paralyze us or defeat us. We should work ourselves up to be able to face our fears. Because sometimes, those fears are completely fictional.</p><p>Like this time when you got totally hooked on a problem that was very real in your mind, only to realize later that you completely misunderstood the situation, or missed one key and crucial piece of information that would have changed your interpretation of the situation.</p><p>You got paranoid.</p><p>And once again, that’s alright. I know that I get paranoid myself. Only I don’t let it dictate my perception of the situation. I place it where it belongs; it is an interpretative vision of some turns of events and circumstances. I am aware of it as such. I also understand that from one situation, it is possible to see and adopt a different set of perspectives.</p><p>Sometimes my mind doesn’t want to let go of certain paranoid vision, threatening visions because our subconscious is made to keep us alive. So I won’t let go of the paranoid vision, to stay alert, and keep me in check and safe. Yet, I understand that this vision isn’t what’s real. Because I get to choose what’s real. And I’d rather be aware of negative turns of events, while picking the most optimistic outlooks, which in turn, lets them appear in my way…</p><p>But enough of me. We’re here to understand better what paranoia is.</p><p>Let’s dive in! 🧜🏽</p><figure><img alt="Infographic titled ‘Paranoia No More: 101 Immediate Tips for Peace of Mind’ featuring strategies like visualization, acceptance, behavioral experiments, pet therapy, creating boundaries, and ensuring privacy. Includes a quote from Claudia Rankine: ‘We were trained to be scanners of our environment, always on the lookout for danger.’" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*OtjSDegKRCFFlzWl" /></figure><p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/ArnaudRevelGoulihi/shop/paranoia-no-more-101-immediate-tips-for-219295?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=productshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link">Are you feeling exhausted by your worries? Wanna let go of this Paranoia and finally get back your Peace of Mind? Let this e-book guide you.</a> ☀️ 🕊</p><h3>🟨 What is Paranoia?</h3><p>Paranoia is typically defined as a mental condition characterized by delusions of persecution, unwarranted jealousy, or exaggerated self-importance, typically worked into an organized system. It may be manifested in overtly suspicious beliefs and a pervasive distrust of others. People experiencing paranoia may feel threatened in some way and believe that others are plotting against them or intending to harm them, despite evidence to the contrary.</p><p>Paranoia can range from mild to severe and can be a symptom of mental health disorders, including paranoid personality, nefast delusions, or schizophrenia. In milder forms, it might just cause excessive worry or fear about a perceived threat. In severe cases, it might involve complex delusions and significantly impact a person’s ability to <a href="https://www.patreon.com/user/shop?u=123490123">function in daily life</a>.</p><p>Understanding paranoia in a broader context involves acknowledging both its potential adaptive aspects — such as increased vigilance and preparedness — as well as its more debilitating impacts when it leads to irrational thoughts and behaviors that interfere with everyday functioning.</p><p>The word “paranoia” comes from the Greek term “paránoia,” which means “mental derangement” or “madness.” It is formed from “para-” (meaning “abnormal” or “defective”) and “nous” (meaning “mind”).</p><h3>🟨 Causes and Origins of Paranoia</h3><p>Paranoia can arise because of different mental triggers. Paranoia is more common and subtle than we might imagine. And it’s not a bad thing, just a way of thinking, a mode of thinking that is good to recognize as such in a neutral and observant manner. That is information, that is input, that is data, that can serve to enrich our perspective. It doesn’t necessarily have to be the only way of thinking, nor does it always need to be rejected. That is an approach. That’s all.</p><figure><img alt="Banner for ‘Childhood Trauma’ section of the article on causes and origins of paranoia." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/744/0*AxpdgysaIIUq2gW-" /></figure><h3>🌻 [ 1 ] Childhood Trauma —</h3><p>Childhood trauma, whether from abuse, neglect, or significant distress, often leaves deep scars that can manifest as paranoia in adulthood. These early experiences shape one’s ability to trust and feel secure in the world.</p><p><strong>🚖 Short Story</strong></p><p>Tommy always thought the monster under his bed was real. Fast forward twenty years, and Tommy, now an adult, still checks under his bed every night — not for monsters, but for hidden cameras. His friends laugh, but they don’t realize Tommy’s paranoia stems from a childhood where he constantly felt unsafe and unprotected.</p><p><strong>📒 Expert Insights</strong></p><p>The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) study reveals that individuals with high ACE scores are more likely to develop paranoia and other mental health issues. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Bowlby">Dr. John Bowlby</a>’s attachment theory also highlights that early relationships with caregivers shape our ability to trust others.</p><blockquote><a href="https://www.bdperry.com/"><em>Dr. Bruce Perry,</em></a><em> a child psychiatrist, notes, “Traumatized children adapt to survive, often resulting in heightened vigilance and mistrust that can evolve into paranoia.”</em></blockquote><p><strong>🌼 Remedies &amp; Solutions</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Therapy </strong>— Seek a therapist specializing in trauma. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) are effective.</li><li><strong>Support Groups </strong>— Join groups for childhood trauma survivors. Sharing experiences with those who understand can be healing.</li><li><strong>Mindfulness Practices </strong>— Engage in mindfulness, meditation, or yoga to reduce anxiety and increase feelings of safety.</li><li><strong>Educational Resources</strong> — Read “<a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/313183/the-body-keeps-the-score-by-bessel-van-der-kolk-md/">The Body Keeps the Score</a>” by <a href="https://www.besselvanderkolk.com/">Dr. Bessel van der Kolk</a> for deeper understanding and coping strategies.</li></ul><p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/ArnaudRevelGoulihi/shop/paranoia-no-more-101-immediate-tips-for-219295?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=productshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link">I grab my copy of “Paranoia No More.”</a> 👈🏽</p><figure><img alt="Banner for ‘Chronic Stress’ section of the article on causes and origins of paranoia." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*p9-e9I715QwyL1Vt" /></figure><h3>🌻 [ 2 ] Chronic Stress —</h3><p>Chronic stress, characterized by ongoing, intense stress situations, can trigger paranoid thinking. The mind, always on high alert, begins to see threats where none exist.</p><p><strong>🚖 Short Story</strong></p><p>Sarah, a corporate executive, started suspecting her coworkers were plotting against her after years of relentless deadlines. Her paranoia peaked when she began avoiding the office coffee machine, convinced her colleagues were tampering with her caffeine fix. Her friends found it amusing, but Sarah’s paranoia was a direct result of her high-stress job.</p><p><strong>📒 Expert Insights</strong></p><p>Chronic stress triggers the release of cortisol, a hormone that can alter brain function, particularly in areas related to fear and anxiety. <a href="https://profiles.stanford.edu/robert-sapolsky">Dr. Robert Sapolsky</a>, a neuroscientist, explains that prolonged exposure to stress hormones can lead to changes in the brain’s architecture, fostering paranoid thoughts. Studies show that individuals in high-stress professions, like first responders and military personnel, are more prone to paranoia due to their conditioned expectation of danger.</p><p><strong>🌼 Remedies &amp; Solutions</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Stress Management Techniques</strong> — Practice progressive muscle relaxation, guided imagery, or Tai Chi.</li><li><strong>Physical Activity </strong>— Regular exercise reduces cortisol levels and improves mood. Activities like walking, swimming, or cycling can be beneficial.</li><li><strong>Balanced Lifestyle </strong>— Ensure adequate sleep, nutritious diet, and regular breaks to prevent burnout.</li><li><strong>Professional Help</strong> — Consult a mental health professional for personalized stress reduction plans and the development of coping mechanisms and strategies.</li></ul><figure><img alt="Banner for ‘Excessive Anxiety’ section of the article on causes and origins of paranoia." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*uiHZhL_2WBu2exGu" /></figure><h3>🌻 [ 3 ] Excessive Anxiety —</h3><p>Excessive anxiety can lead to paranoid thoughts about everyday situations without substantial evidence. This can escalate into catastrophizing scenarios, which can sometimes be useful in professions requiring high alertness, like intelligence.</p><p><strong>🚖 Short Story</strong></p><p>Jake, an ex-CIA agent, now teaches business strategies using skills from his intelligence days. However, his tendency to catastrophize means he sometimes sees conspiracies in the simplest business decisions. His friends chuckle when he insists the copier is leaking company secrets.</p><p><strong>📒 Expert Insights</strong></p><p>Excessive anxiety causes the brain to overreact to normal situations, often leading to paranoia. <a href="https://www.princeton.edu/news/2024/03/28/daniel-kahneman-pioneering-behavioral-psychologist-nobel-laureate-and-giant-field">Dr. Daniel Kahneman</a>’s work on cognitive biases explains how our minds can jump to worst-case scenarios. Anxiety increases vigilance, which, while useful in high-stakes professions, can lead to seeing threats everywhere in everyday life.</p><p><strong>🌼 Remedies &amp; Solutions</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Anxiety Management </strong>— Practice deep breathing exercises, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation.</li><li><strong>Therapy </strong>— Seek therapy to address anxiety. CBT is particularly effective in treating anxiety and reducing paranoid thoughts.</li><li><strong>Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques</strong> — Engage in activities that ground you in the present moment, reducing the tendency to catastrophize.</li><li><strong>Educational Resources </strong>— Read “<a href="https://us.macmillan.com/books/9780374533557/thinkingfastandslow">Thinking, Fast and Slow</a>” by <a href="https://www.princeton.edu/news/2024/03/28/daniel-kahneman-pioneering-behavioral-psychologist-nobel-laureate-and-giant-field">Daniel Kahneman</a> to understand cognitive biases and anxiety.</li></ul><figure><img alt="Banner for ‘Paranoid Tendencies’ section of the article on causes and origins of paranoia to increase emotional intelligence." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*38fWsY7-2nB0AFvD" /></figure><h3>🌻 [ 4 ] Paranoid Tendencies —</h3><p>Paranoid tendencies are often linked to neuro-developmental conditions such as schizophrenia, paranoid personality disorder, delusional propensities, monomania, narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, and OCD.</p><p><strong>🚖 Short Story</strong></p><p>Emma’s friends joke that she could make a career out of detective work because of her suspicious nature. What they don’t see is how her borderline personality disorder amplifies her paranoid tendencies, making her constantly question the motives behind even the simplest gestures.</p><p><strong>📒 Expert Insights</strong></p><p>Conditions like schizophrenia and borderline personality disorder significantly increase the likelihood of paranoid thoughts. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aaron_Beck">Dr. Aaron Beck</a>, a pioneer in cognitive therapy, found that individuals with these conditions often misinterpret benign situations as threatening. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) outlines these tendencies, emphasizing the need for appropriate diagnosis and treatment.</p><p><strong>🌼 Remedies &amp; Solutions</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Professional Diagnosis and Treatment </strong>— Seek a professional diagnosis. Treatment may include medication and therapy. So you’ll have to look for a psychiatrist and not a psychologist, because psychiatrists are trained to prescribe medication.</li><li><strong>Education </strong>— Learn about the specific condition to better understand and manage symptoms.</li><li><strong>Coping Strategies </strong>— Practice coping strategies recommended by mental health professionals, such as CBT techniques and mindfulness.</li><li><strong>Support Systems</strong> — Build a strong support network of friends, family, and mental health professionals</li></ul><figure><img alt="Banner for ‘PTSD and C-PTSD’ section of the article on causes and origins of paranoia to increase emotional intelligence." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*ETNhLgT47-PKP9wB" /></figure><h3>🌻 [ 5 ] PTSD and C-PTSD (Complex-Post Traumatic Stress Response)</h3><p>PTSD and C-PTSD develop in individuals who have faced significant adversities or dangers, leading to valid suspicions about their safety. These conditions often result in heightened vigilance and paranoia.</p><p><strong>🚖 Short Story</strong></p><p>Jack once survived a wild bear encounter during a camping trip, and now he jumps every time he hears the word “picnic.” His friends started calling him “Bear Whisperer” as a joke, but Jack’s hyper-vigilance and suspicion of even the smallest rustling sound show how deeply his experience affected him.</p><p><strong>📒 Expert Insights</strong></p><p>PTSD and C-PTSD result from severe trauma, often causing individuals to be overly cautious and paranoid. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judith_Lewis_Herman">Dr. Judith Herman</a>, in her book “<a href="https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/judith-lewis-herman-md/trauma-and-recovery/9781541602953/">Trauma and Recovery,</a>” discusses how these conditions alter the brain’s response to perceived threats, making everyday situations seem dangerous. Studies show that trauma survivors often develop heightened senses of alertness and mistrust to protect themselves from potential harm.</p><p><strong>🌼 Remedies &amp; Solutions</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Therapy </strong>— Seek specialized therapy such as EMDR or trauma-focused CBT.</li><li><strong>Support Systems </strong>— Engage with support groups for trauma survivors to share experiences and coping strategies.</li><li><strong>Educational Resources</strong> — Read “<a href="https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/judith-lewis-herman-md/trauma-and-recovery/9781541602953/">Trauma and Recovery</a>” by <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judith_Lewis_Herman">Dr. Judith Herman</a> to understand PTSD and C-PTSD better.</li><li><strong>Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques </strong>— Practice techniques like deep breathing, yoga, or meditation to manage anxiety and hyper-vigilance.</li></ul><p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/ArnaudRevelGoulihi/shop/paranoia-no-more-101-immediate-tips-for-219295?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=productshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link">Do you want 101 useful tips to be sure you’ll slam those paranoid thoughts? 🔕</a></p><figure><img alt="Infographic titled ‘Paranoia No More: 101 Immediate Tips for Peace of Mind’ showing cognitive and behavioral strategies like visualization, acceptance, and behavioral experiments. It also mentions pet therapy, creating boundaries, and ensuring privacy for environmental adjustments." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*TJDmtdnYquP8X5B-" /></figure><p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/ArnaudRevelGoulihi/shop/paranoia-no-more-101-immediate-tips-for-219295?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=productshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link">Say yes to your Peace of Mind.</a> 👈🏽</p><figure><img alt="Banner for ‘Environmental Factors’ section of the article on causes and origins of paranoia to increase emotional intelligence." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*HvcSmlVaYkbB9SiN" /></figure><h3>🌻 [ 6 ] Environmental Factors —</h3><p>Living in high-stress environments or experiencing social isolation can induce paranoid thoughts. These factors contribute significantly to mental health issues.</p><p><strong>🚖 Short Story</strong></p><p>Lena moved to a bustling city for a new job and soon started believing her neighbor’s cat was spying on her. She would even wave at the cat to “throw it off its game.” Her friends laugh, saying she’s just being a city slicker, but Lena’s paranoia is fueled by her high-stress urban lifestyle.</p><p><strong>📒 Expert Insights</strong></p><p>Environmental stressors like noise, pollution, and social isolation can significantly impact mental health. <a href="https://lisafeldmanbarrett.com/">Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett</a>’s research on emotions shows that our environment profoundly affects our psychological state. High-stress environments can lead to heightened anxiety and paranoia as individuals constantly perceive threats around them.</p><p><strong>🌼 Remedies &amp; Solutions</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Create a Calming Space</strong> — Designate a quiet, comfortable area in your home to unwind and relax.</li><li><strong>Social Connections</strong> — Make an effort to connect with friends, family, or community groups to reduce feelings of isolation.</li><li><strong>Physical Activity </strong>— Engage in regular exercise to reduce stress and improve overall mental health.</li><li><strong>Educational Resources</strong> — Explore “<a href="https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/lisa-feldman-barrett/how-emotions-are-made/9781328915436/">How Emotions Are Made</a>” by <a href="https://lisafeldmanbarrett.com/books/how-emotions-are-made/">Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett</a> to understand the impact of environmental factors on emotions.</li></ul><figure><img alt="Banner for ‘Physical Health Issues’ section of the article on causes and origins of paranoia to increase emotional intelligence." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*Ee8XnRXoL227vtzR" /></figure><h3>🌻 [ 7 ] Physical Health Issues —</h3><p>Certain neurological conditions and the side effects of medications can trigger paranoia. Understanding the link between physical health and mental well-being is crucial.</p><p><strong>🚖 Short Story</strong></p><p>Bob recently got new glasses and suddenly started thinking everyone was staring at him. He’d adjust his glasses dramatically in meetings, saying, “I know you’re watching!” His friends joked he’d become a secret agent, but Bob’s paranoia stemmed from the side effects of his medication affecting his vision.</p><p><strong>📒 Expert Insights</strong></p><p>Physical health conditions like brain injuries, dementia, and the side effects of certain medications can induce paranoia. <a href="https://www.oliversacks.com/about/">Dr. Oliver Sacks</a>, in his book “<a href="https://www.oliversacks.com/books-by-oliver-sacks/the-man-who-mistook-his-wife-for-a-hat/">The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat,</a>” details how neurological disorders can lead to bizarre and paranoid behaviors. It’s important to monitor and manage these health issues to maintain mental well-being.</p><p><strong>🌼 Remedies &amp; Solutions</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Medical Consultation</strong> — Regularly consult with healthcare providers to manage neurological conditions and medication side effects.</li><li><strong>Holistic Health Approach </strong>— Consider holistic approaches that integrate physical and mental health treatments.</li><li><strong>Support Groups </strong>— Join support groups for individuals with similar health issues to share coping strategies and experiences.</li><li><strong>Educational Resources </strong>— Read “<a href="https://www.oliversacks.com/books-by-oliver-sacks/the-man-who-mistook-his-wife-for-a-hat/">The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat</a>” by <a href="https://www.oliversacks.com/about/">Dr. Oliver Sacks</a> for insights into the neurological basis of paranoia.</li></ul><h3>That’s it! ☀️</h3><p>If you find that this article is a good reference point for you, feel free to share it with your friends, or loved ones in need. Understanding what we go through is often a potent way to distance ourselves from those experiences, process them, and find a path of peaceful resolution or recovery.</p><blockquote><em>“</em>The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.<em>” — Aristotle, ancient Greek Philosopher</em></blockquote><p>Until then, remember:<br>You are love,<br>And therefore loved.</p><h3>Together we care better, better, and better. 💛</h3><figure><img alt="Main image for ‘Understanding Paranoia’ by Stalk Yourself, a Wellness Engineering Solution focused on building a better society together. Be Good. Be Better. Together." src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*_SwlfuvLdNvPjlBf4zLrbw.png" /></figure><figure><img alt="Stalk Yourself (Wellness Engineering Company) caption for Arnaud Revel Goulihi’s article on Emotional Support with “Be Good. Be Better. 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            <title><![CDATA[How to Foster Emotional Support? The Power of Wu Wei  —]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-foster-emotional-support-the-power-of-wu-wei-0151a0b982bc?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2160/1*W3072mR3yCZ_gRTHMfQmYA.png" width="2160"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Wu Wei, a central concept in Taoism, translates to &#x2018;non-action&#x2019; or &#x2018;effortless action.&#x2019; It&#x2019;s about aligning with the natural flow of life&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-foster-emotional-support-the-power-of-wu-wei-0151a0b982bc?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2">Continue reading on Stalk Yourself™ »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2024 09:27:32 GMT</pubDate>
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            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-foster-emotional-support-dealing-with-difficult-grief-712b173244a0?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2160/1*AVOiMzShrM_CYNfMhMn_gg.png" width="2160"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Grief is a deeply personal and universal experience, affecting everyone at some point in their lives. It&#x2019;s a complex mix of emotions that&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-foster-emotional-support-dealing-with-difficult-grief-712b173244a0?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2">Continue reading on Stalk Yourself™ »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Foster Emotional Support? Effectively Understanding Grief  —]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-foster-emotional-support-effectively-understanding-grief-8ca7e4a1beaa?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2160/1*PqkJ3BEVRyY9rlmWKNUxXg.png" width="2160"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Tackling this process is challenging and intense, to say the least. The emotional toll taken by the loss of intangibles&#x200A;&#x2014;&#x200A;our backstories&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-foster-emotional-support-effectively-understanding-grief-8ca7e4a1beaa?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2">Continue reading on Stalk Yourself™ »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2024 09:27:31 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Be Emotionally Supportive? Distraction Is Really Fine Too  —]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-be-emotionally-supportive-distraction-is-really-fine-too-d8fba50e51a9?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2160/1*eKPqVpJjWlRk75GIjco_1Q.png" width="2160"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">When it comes to being emotionally supportive, we want to get it right. We think about what to do, when to do it, how to do it, why to do&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-be-emotionally-supportive-distraction-is-really-fine-too-d8fba50e51a9?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2">Continue reading on Stalk Yourself™ »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2024 09:02:03 GMT</pubDate>
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            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-be-emotionally-supportive-when-emotionally-unavailable-1262b1af38a6?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2160/1*c9uX8rcW_uj8k9lqxaeQeQ.png" width="2160"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Do you know if you are currently emotionally available or if you are emotionally unavailable? Does it make a difference when it comes to&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-be-emotionally-supportive-when-emotionally-unavailable-1262b1af38a6?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2">Continue reading on Stalk Yourself™ »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2024 09:11:43 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Be Emotionally Supportive? Dealing with Paranoia  —]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-be-emotionally-supportive-dealing-with-paranoia-42c457554146?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2160/1*_3xyfkUnonDk2j3d668Ehg.png" width="2160"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">There is much to say about that one. Psychology of everything. I am sure you felt something about that title. It&#x2019;s impossible not to feel&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-be-emotionally-supportive-dealing-with-paranoia-42c457554146?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2">Continue reading on Stalk Yourself™ »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2024 09:11:38 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[9 Things to Cultivate a Grateful Environment at Work ]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/9-things-to-cultivate-a-grateful-environment-at-work-7c69e6da358a?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*L-YVm01n8BUlLUvZgiRFXw.png" width="3584"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Studies show that thanking your way through life isn&#x2019;t just polite&#x200A;&#x2014;&#x200A;it&#x2019;s a game-changer. Observed benefits include:</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/9-things-to-cultivate-a-grateful-environment-at-work-7c69e6da358a?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2">Continue reading on Stalk Yourself™ »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 05 May 2024 13:31:22 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Be Emotionally Supportive? Map Ahead: Establish a Crisis Plan  —]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-be-emotionally-supportive-map-ahead-establish-a-crisis-plan-b893feec6d27?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2160/1*D1_8EZkTX4ASWU2e5bML6A.png" width="2160"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Don&#x2019;t panic nor get overwhelmed. If you read my content thoroughly, or sporadically, you have already done a good part of the work.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/stalk-yourself/how-to-be-emotionally-supportive-map-ahead-establish-a-crisis-plan-b893feec6d27?source=rss-9cd9d158e361------2">Continue reading on Stalk Yourself™ »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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