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            <title><![CDATA[How Polyamory Stopped Feeling Safe]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/how-polyamory-stopped-feeling-safe-068e41a5911e?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*nLQhhNxaFKQz3faauGRNHA.jpeg" width="4434"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">&#x201C;If you have sex with someone else, I will be destroyed&#x201D;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/how-polyamory-stopped-feeling-safe-068e41a5911e?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2">Continue reading on Know Thyself, Heal Thyself »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2025 10:59:04 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Will I Ever Return to Polyamory?]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2025 16:13:37 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[When a Lover Pulls Away, or Desire Slowly Fades]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/when-a-lover-pulls-away-or-desire-slowly-fades-df0a43065238?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*rCJt6VzpKb9hxHpEA8Yudw.jpeg" width="6490"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">At first you&#x2019;ll fight it, but eventually, you&#x2019;ll flourish</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/when-a-lover-pulls-away-or-desire-slowly-fades-df0a43065238?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2">Continue reading on Know Thyself, Heal Thyself »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 28 Jun 2024 09:22:18 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Session With My Inner Therapist at 4:33 am Last Night]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/if-not-romance/session-with-my-inner-therapist-at-4-33-am-last-night-74207086c4b3?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*kviRSyxRo89TQiTJ_dn4Gw.jpeg" width="6000"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Polyamory is just too much sometimes but also, but I kinda want to date again, too</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/if-not-romance/session-with-my-inner-therapist-at-4-33-am-last-night-74207086c4b3?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2">Continue reading on If Not Romance »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 23 Jun 2024 16:48:12 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Dancing With Another Showed Me I Was Non-Monogamous at Heart]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 08 Jun 2024 19:01:25 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[After a Year of Polyamory Challenges, Do I Really Want to Date Again?]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/if-not-romance/after-a-year-of-polyamory-challenges-do-i-really-want-to-date-again-8a1cd2523873?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*WZ40U_Mq-ULRgJW4oBON3w.jpeg" width="3295"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I don&#x2019;t have time or energy to run after Peter Pan, but it&#x2019;d be great to jog alongside a friend and lover</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/if-not-romance/after-a-year-of-polyamory-challenges-do-i-really-want-to-date-again-8a1cd2523873?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2">Continue reading on If Not Romance »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 05 Dec 2023 17:16:08 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Sex Was So Hot… Then Came My Desire for Intimacy]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/sensual-enchantment/the-sex-was-so-hot-then-came-my-desire-for-intimacy-36c3ec720a9e?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*f417makzf4JO9BEz2dKX6g.jpeg" width="5184"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Is sex always about forming a deep soul bond?</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/sensual-enchantment/the-sex-was-so-hot-then-came-my-desire-for-intimacy-36c3ec720a9e?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2">Continue reading on Sensual: An Erotic Life »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 30 Sep 2023 17:47:56 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Used to Be His Favorite Person — Then There Was Polyamory]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/if-not-romance/i-used-to-be-his-favorite-person-then-there-was-polyamory-a37a6ac6aaea?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*_Uwcs9DUsi2cquc45Ss0gA.jpeg" width="3100"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">This is the origin of our love story</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/if-not-romance/i-used-to-be-his-favorite-person-then-there-was-polyamory-a37a6ac6aaea?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2">Continue reading on If Not Romance »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2023 14:55:12 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Polyamory Updates: The Simmering Fear in My Stomach Is Finally Beginning To Fade]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/age-of-empathy/polyamory-updates-the-simmering-fear-in-my-stomach-is-finally-beginning-to-fade-761785e9a0a8?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*4Zu_CVp1Ji9X8uFDMwaBLQ.jpeg" width="6000"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I&#x2019;m finding my footing as my partner&#x2019;s other relationship goes on hiatus</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/age-of-empathy/polyamory-updates-the-simmering-fear-in-my-stomach-is-finally-beginning-to-fade-761785e9a0a8?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2">Continue reading on Age of Empathy »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 05 Sep 2023 02:19:48 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[How I Know Things Are Getting Better in Polyamory]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/age-of-empathy/how-i-know-things-are-getting-better-in-polyamory-4069ce318297?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1600/0*bmMPQjFO13_WrRFp" width="1600"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">After a period of polyamory-induced despair, I&#x2019;m beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/age-of-empathy/how-i-know-things-are-getting-better-in-polyamory-4069ce318297?source=rss-7920e0266ce------2">Continue reading on Age of Empathy »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 05 Aug 2023 02:24:22 GMT</pubDate>
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