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            <title><![CDATA[Life Update: Rediscovering Myself Beyond the 9-to-5]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 08 Oct 2024 16:17:26 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2024-10-08T16:17:26.784Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*rI382eRzpy45h4QxeI_cuQ.jpeg" /><figcaption>Meet the Author</figcaption></figure><h4>Hello, Medium Family!</h4><p>It feels like forever since I last connected with all of you here. Medium has always been my safe space to share my thoughts and feelings, and today, I felt the pull to come back and write again. I hope each one of you is doing well, staying safe, and finding joy in life’s little moments.</p><p>Have you ever wondered why life is so unpredictable? Why can’t things just be… easy? I’m sure we all ask ourselves that question from time to time. It’s been over a year since I last wrote here, and you might be wondering why. Well, it’s not that I was unwell or dealing with anything major – in fact, I’ve been healthy and doing just fine. But I fell into the rhythm of the 9-to-5 grind, and before I knew it, I began to realize how empty life can feel when you&#39;re just going through the motions.</p><p>Do you ever feel that hollowness too? The sense that no matter how much you accomplish, something’s still missing? It’s tough to juggle everything—if you have a great career, it often comes with sacrifices in your personal life. It feels like everything has a price. I’ve always had big dreams and ambitions, but lately, I’ve noticed that something within me seems to wither away each day, as if the fire that once burned brightly has dimmed. This part of growing older is something I’ve definitely struggled with.</p><p>I wanted to share this with all of you because I know I’m not alone in these feelings. There will be days when we don’t feel motivated, when happiness seems just out of reach. But remember, this is just a phase, a chapter in the bigger story of your life. The journey, with all its ups and downs, is far more beautiful than the destination.</p><p>No matter what challenges life throws at us, we should never stop believing in ourselves. We are enough. You are enough. Self-contentment is the key to true happiness, and with this blog post, I’m hoping to reignite that spark within me – to find the motivation to keep writing and sharing.</p><p>I can’t wait to hear your thoughts and life updates in the comments. Let’s keep growing, learning, and supporting one another.</p><p>I love you all. I can’t wait to meet you in the comment section with your life updates. ❤️</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*15ORi2NhZdauQwQn_vjL1Q.jpeg" /><figcaption>Finding hope in the Darkness🌌</figcaption></figure><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=9c818c41dbda" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[We are growing older!]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 15 Aug 2023 18:16:29 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2024-10-26T05:34:14.518Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*tWjEz3vrL5LV6mHV" /><figcaption>❣️</figcaption></figure><p>I hate this aspect of life. As I lay in bed, I think about how much it has changed recently and how a year can drastically alter our personality. those who were once significant can now be insignificant strangers, and those who were once unfamiliar can now become routine.</p><p>Life is weird isn’t it? I’m 24 today I’ll be turning 25 next month like I’m turning old we all have this thought once in a while when we are busy in our everyday hectic schedule attending meetings, hanging out with friends, or sitting alone. There is this alarm whichsnooze in my mind, continuously why?</p><p>Why do I get up early every day and drive myself to the same spot where I work, hustle up when at the end of the day I am alone?</p><p>When I was young I always used to think why even people need someone to share thier life isn’t our parents enough, and trust me guys no matter how loving, caring and wonderful family and siblings we can have,there will still going to be a void in heart which cannot be filled, where you will feel like wish I had someone to share my joy, pain achievements with someone who can make it easy, someone who can make us feel we are wanted, we are special.</p><p>Somebody I can convey how exhausting my day was and how much I missed being by his side as I slept next to after a long day.</p><p>I know my parents are always there for me and I adore them, but there are times when I still yearn for a partner who is there solely for me, a person I can name my own selfishly.</p><p>When we can experience life with our loved ones, it is worthwhile to strive for. <br>I know I seem extremely sombre and depressed right now, but I fear becoming older and not having enough memories; while money can buy us luxuries, memories are what truly provide solace.</p><p><em>Do share in the comments how and what make you feel special after a long day, and how you cherish it.</em></p><h3>This was all for today, thankyou for reading, love you all 🩷</h3><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=d70a4b8f06b" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Medium being Unfair!]]></title>
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            <category><![CDATA[productivity]]></category>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sat, 29 Jul 2023 07:04:39 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-07-29T07:06:45.849Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*Jjk34DKNGdLkDhEt" /><figcaption>Photo by Clay Banks on Unsplash</figcaption></figure><p>I mean I don’t know why I feel this isn’t the right thing to exist. <a href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https://medium.com/&amp;ved=2ahUKEwjn1Jfcq7OAAxW1gVYBHToUC9cQFnoECCIQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw1m__gUbdtfZOuLzTV3HRJR">Medium</a> expect us non listed countries to buy membership and stuff even though in that manner we are supporting the writer on this platform irrespective small or gigantic. But what about considering our countries to avail the <a href="https://help.medium.com/hc/en-us/articles/115011694187-Getting-started-with-the-Partner-Program">MPP</a> as well?</p><p>How difficult it can be for medium to make it possible for every writer irrespective of country.</p><p>I believe all the writers here works equally hard to bring their story to the table to help the community being a better version of themselves, writing consistently is just so not easy it requires lots of motivation and will power, and if it pays off it does help the writer to continue to have ideas to evolve grow and whatsoever.</p><p>In this situation why opportunities couldn’t be similar for every individual.</p><p>Passion and motivation flows with continuity, when it pays off in terms of remuneration that feeling is undoubtedly satisfactory. It’s unfair for all the writers here who are persistently keeping themselves motivated to write.</p><p>My opinion might sound disappointing or demeaning to some. But when we think from the point of view of those writer who consider writing as thier money making profession it is injustice with them including me in it.</p><p>I believe the direct reason to which medium cannot enroll some countries is due to stripe. Countries which doesn’t have stripe are automatically ineligible for partner program. Understandable, but it can have a solution as well if thought about it as a serious concern.</p><p>My article might just goes in the same queue of all those writer who highlight thier disappointment about the same. I just wish some consideration via medium for all the non listed countries. We all deserves equal opportunity.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*qxlckAMlhuvNC_FG" /><figcaption>Photo by Markus Winkler on Unsplash</figcaption></figure><p><strong>That is all for this article, thankyou for reading do share your opinion about it.</strong></p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=331db7a21c3d" width="1" height="1" alt=""><hr><p><a href="https://medium.com/hustleventuresg/medium-being-unfair-331db7a21c3d">Medium being Unfair!</a> was originally published in <a href="https://medium.com/hustleventuresg">HustleVentureSG</a> on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why I took break from medium?]]></title>
            <link>https://artinmycart.medium.com/why-i-took-break-from-medium-c5c5626952b5?source=rss-244f22558398------2</link>
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            <category><![CDATA[meditation]]></category>
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            <category><![CDATA[storytelling]]></category>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Fri, 28 Jul 2023 11:14:55 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-07-29T06:36:03.655Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello my medium family, this will going to be short probably but let’s start here.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/805/1*6fVbooL71yKduwarDsjhxQ.jpeg" /><figcaption>Picture Courtesy- Author&#39;s Cringe Photo Gallery.</figcaption></figure><p><strong>First of all I’m beyond thankful and grounded for all the love you people have showed to my </strong><a href="https://artinmycart.medium.com/dear-medium-family-i-write-this-for-you-b9c41f3fe84e"><strong>article</strong></a><strong>. It was something else so emotional for me to discover people can relate with my struggles my journey, and my learning. Once again a big hug to all of you . I love you all❤️</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*t-2FbFXHGhzIndUGKnZlyg.jpeg" /><figcaption>Picture courtesy- ☁️</figcaption></figure><h3>What I did in past 3 months, on my break journey.</h3><p>Since life is so chaotic and unpredictable, i stopped writing for no particular reason. For example, three months ago, I was finding it difficult to imagine the future, but now I’m in a better place. I started working for a great company with great employees. A place that supports and appreciates my work and makes me mentally happy.</p><p>I didn’t really have time to open medium, write my views off, communicate to you people, or connect with you because of my terribly tiring work and personal schedule. There are days when you simply lack the motivation to write, and that’s okay Every one of us must become lost at some point in order to discover who we truly are.</p><p>Sometimes we need to pause for a while, to reflect on what we want to do next before moving on. I took a significant break from my work, spent a lot of time with my family, my loved one’s and now I felt inspired to write down my views.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*-wDmtCEKQJtUFZsfeLXMEw.jpeg" /><figcaption>Picture courtesy- ☔</figcaption></figure><h3>What can we expect now in my medium journey?</h3><p>While I can’t make any promises just yet, I simply want to dedicate my feed to serving as a forum for personal revisit discussions on life lessons and inspiration to advance. I will make every attempt, taking up as much time as necessary, to continue writing. For this new journey i require all of ya’ll love, support and consideration.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*UI1YiLoc6yFieQE5VAjUWQ.jpeg" /><figcaption>Picture courtesy- 🪟</figcaption></figure><h3>How is life lately.</h3><p>Someone said it truly, growing up is extremely difficult because the days pass swiftly, like sand through a funnel, and we are helpless to slow them down or stop them.</p><p>I literally want to spend every second of my life with my loved one’s my parents people who care for me love me. Going out meeting new people or starting anything new doesn’t excite me at all anymore.</p><p>What’s important to me at this point is, me being surrounded with my people and creating beautiful memories with them that are worthwhile.</p><p>Hatred, guilt, and criticism I believe that none of these are relevant to my life anymore. If I say now that I find satisfaction in being uninteresting and ordinary, it is exactly something that makes me happy.</p><p>I believe life is simple; it’s only us that complex it. And it is essential to recognise what brings us comfort and what brings us joy.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*FsIAVE0iRH7GydXgj6b-pA.jpeg" /><figcaption>Picture courtesy- 🌆</figcaption></figure><h3>simplicity, and modesty has its own natural beauty. Life is good, and it has lessons for all of us that are unique which is hidden inside its curve. It’s just the right time and patience.</h3><h3>I’m glad I could be a part of medium and share my thoughts and life learning.</h3><h4>I would love to hear what you all think about Adulting and growing up and one lesson you learned recently which helped you keep moving forward.</h4><p>Thankyou for reading, I’ll be soon publishing a new article. I love you all🩷</p><p>I would love to connect with my readers via <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/radhika-sharma-374658262">LinkedIn</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/artinmycart?t=1k9Hlfe4euRvbLU5GSHuLA&amp;s=09">Twitter</a></p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=c5c5626952b5" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My story has 100 fans, and this article is for my people.]]></title>
            <link>https://artinmycart.medium.com/my-country-is-not-eligible-for-medium-partner-program-but-does-that-stop-me-804f5f39464?source=rss-244f22558398------2</link>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 08 Mar 2023 12:30:46 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-03-08T16:38:14.169Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>A thankyou blog for my readers.💌</h4><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*mgdNw0waMqrEQ2gOV_x7Xg.jpeg" /><figcaption>📷 : Author Gallery Screenshot.</figcaption></figure><p><strong>I’m deeply humble and emotional when i write this article today..</strong></p><p><em>So,this morning I wokeup with a notification about my article </em><strong><em>“Dear medium Family I write this for you”.</em></strong><em> had 100 Fans, and it was factually such an surreal feeling, i cannot express it in words.</em> Thankyou dear readers, for all the love and positive motivation. How can i give up or stop going forward when i have a bunch of supportive people around me, as i previously said in one of my article i’<em>m a firm believer of good existing within people,</em> i’m gratified and i truly acknowledge each one of you as real gem in my life. 💎</p><p>“T<em>hankyou for all the love and abundance support, you people have given me throughout my journey”.</em></p><h3>My country is not eligible for medium partner program.</h3><p><em>Y</em>es, I belongs to a non listed country that is India, which makes me in-eligible for <strong>Medium partner program. <em>As every other non listed writer my initial reaction to the revelation, was something called disappointment.</em></strong></p><p><strong>(But it was with me just for a while)</strong></p><p><strong>In my opinion</strong>, the reason i continue vocalizing my words on medium is simply because i enjoy the feeling of happiness that writing gives me, and i always enjoy sharing my thoughts, ideas, and knowledge with my readers..</p><blockquote>There is no better feeling than spending several days or weeks</blockquote><blockquote>working on a blog before clicking the publish button.</blockquote><p><em>Being a new author on this platform i am still processing as well as recognizing, all the love and encouragement i have recieved and been receiving till now.</em></p><p><strong>You all are in my heart.❤</strong></p><h3>How to make the most our of Medium.</h3><p>There is nothing as such a plan right now in my case, I’m a “<strong>trust the process</strong>” kind of person slowly and steadily it will going to be better.</p><p><em>In terms of my growth.</em></p><p>And as i wrote in my previous article. I’m researching and trying to understand about affiliate model, to monetize my blogs I know it’s a crucial process and I don’t want to hurry . <em>I want to do something which is reliable and trustworthy for my audience and I’m sure where there is a will there is always a way.</em></p><p>On that note soon, I’ll be sharing it as well. I can promise <em>that,I will never cease penning the unprocessed, hunched-over, yet contented thoughts I have.</em></p><p>It’s the most beautiful thing I can do via medium. Trust me when i say it,<em> Whenever readers leave comments in my comments thread to show their appreciation, about how they can relate with what I have written. it gives me pure joy.</em></p><h3>About Medium Partner program to all the non-listed countries I’m sure one day we will going to make successful pitching towards it I can say it with my faith.</h3><h4>Meanwhile, we can use this opportunity to grow an audience mark our presence and connect with people across the globe 🌎</h4><h4><em>opportunities are endless for those who believe in themselves.</em></h4><p><strong>Thankyou for reading❤</strong></p><p>Connect with me on my <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/radhika-sharma-374658262">LinkedIn</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/artinmycart?t=DjXWfg-zOIv3bNvMiMCkxg&amp;s=09">Twitter</a> and subscribe to my newsletter which can make us stay connected.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=804f5f39464" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA["Amplifying Women’s Voices”.]]></title>
            <link>https://artinmycart.medium.com/amplifying-womens-voices-b58ba7e9e2aa?source=rss-244f22558398------2</link>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2023 07:45:25 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-03-08T04:27:04.586Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>World via Female Perspective.</h4><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/977/1*B8rmMvwBWDO6YRbNl1aZIQ.png" /><figcaption>I&#39;m a Woman by Emmy Melli</figcaption></figure><h3>A civilization with a highly sophisticated, prejudiced, and dishonest mentality. Collectively, we build up society, and after that, women.</h3><p><strong>kind, compassionate, sensitive, loving, creative, emotional, giving and what not?</strong> my mind has so many jumbled incidents and inspirations to convey to every readers out there, when i think of a women the first instinct in my mind is mother. I came out of a woman, who raised me to be stronger everyday that woman, who within the journey of daughter, wife, turned a mother and taught me how to embrace my insecurities, flaws and be the best version of myself i can ever be.</p><p><strong>“I’m a daughter of a women who taught me to take no injustice, support no taboo nor stigma,</strong> <strong>be a debatable anti-chauvinist”.</strong></p><p>And a women who piss of the roots of toxic masculinity prevailing between us, and firmly questioning the misogyny existing in society, the belief which gives them the power to exploit a women in name of culture creed or regulations.</p><p><strong>“Yes I’m a rebel for a cause, i recognize myself as that female who is ambitious, ingenious, generous. And at the same time a fire, which has the potential to burn the cattle sowed over discrimination and inequalities”.</strong></p><h4>I will be sharing a part of my story today, when I was young I was always heard around to have dreams eligible to my sexual orientation “a female”.</h4><h3>For instance,</h3><p>Don&#39;t be noisy, don&#39;t try to compete, don&#39;t be outspoken, act like a woman, be soft and considerate, have a child, get married, and so on.</p><p>These are some retaliatory responses that all women have encountered at various points in their lives. I have encountered people who have made me feel like a woman, which has precluded me from pursuing big dreams or ambitious goals.</p><p><em>My biggest win points growing up were my parents,</em> who gave me the finest of everything, they were my biggest supporters during my formative years. I can honestly state that I’ve never been in a precarious circumstance where my parents had to tell me that I’m a girl child. even when neighbours would remark that having two girls would be <em>&quot;simply too much of a responsibility&quot; for my parents</em>. But our parents never made us feel like a burden, and I can never say that they treated us differently from our brother. Up until now, they have always given us the best, and I absolutely love my parents for that.</p><p>Although the reasons for gender discrimination between us have always been on my mind, it was only through my experiences that I was able to examine them and realise that no matter who attempts to stop me, I can always fight harder with my people by my side.</p><p>A person is in reality susceptible to exploitation if they consent to it, and women in particular have been objectified for decades.</p><h3>“From Objects to Equals”.</h3><p>We all confronted the problem of objectification as women, regardless of how much our culture has Westernized or advanced. <strong>Eve teasing, exploitation of sexuality, harassment, and other online crimes.</strong> We can all agree that there is a disproportionately higher rate of crime against women. I am aware that some things in this world are immutable and cannot be altered.</p><p>And that makes it very essential to acknowledge the existence of female crimes and take conscious actions against them. Ignorance towards the issue can perpetuate the cycle of violence and contribute to the victimization of women. By ignoring the problem, we are sending a message that such behavior is acceptable and can continue without consequences.</p><h3>The Need to end the Dehumanization of Women&quot;</h3><p>Women have been subjected to various forms of crimes throughout history. From domestic violence to sexual harassment and assault, women continue to be victims of gender-based violence in many parts of the world. Despite efforts to curb the issue, the rates of these crimes continue to soar, with being many occurrence unreported. I will not even be going towards rape, molestation. Because every time I consider it, my blood boils with intense disappointment at how inadequate we are as people.</p><p><strong><em>Without women, the world would be an empty soul less place. Women have been playing a pivotal role in shaping the world since the dawn of time.</em></strong> The nurturers, the caregivers, the problem-solvers, and the innovators. I value every feminine energy around me, I’m sure no one in this world is powerful then a women who knows her wants, her way, her vision, and her journey.</p><h3>Conclusion</h3><p>There is no better aid than education, and while I agree that literacy and illiteracy have no relationship to criminal behaviour, even a moderate amount of learning can have a significant impact on the next generation.</p><p>Every youngster of the next generation needs to be taught about a healthy and solid understanding of <strong>female emotions, female masturbation, and menstruation, as well as the most vital concept of a woman’s consent.</strong></p><h3>“The Generation is our Hope”.</h3><p><strong><em>If not us, who else?</em></strong> I’m aware that no article or quote can resolve real rooted problems, but small actions can make a difference. I have a younger brother in my family, and I timely endeavor to assist him a basic understanding about how delicately simple yet strong a woman is. I try to make a small handy effort of my contribution and I think we all should do this least to have a minor long-run improvement.</p><h3>“Celebrating every women, and their gravitating energy. empower a woman, and you empower a community. give her a voice, and you give her the power to change the world. women are a mark to whole human existence”.</h3><p><strong>Thankyou for reading my article, I’m a bit lost in thoughts as i start living in scenarios while I write, I just want that day, where women knows it’s safe to go out at nights. i know it’s a personal feeling but I’m a bit protective and emotional over this topic.</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*3aEmu29c08wCymGi6y2RnA.png" /><figcaption>Photo by Fadi Xd on Unsplash</figcaption></figure><h4><strong>I recognize the love and appreciation you all have been giving me since my initial journey of medium. I appreciate it and I’m humble, drop your strong realization point or experience as a women in the comment box.</strong></h4><p><strong><em>Connect with me on my </em></strong><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/radhika-sharma-374658262"><strong><em>LinkedIn</em></strong></a><strong><em> and </em></strong><a href="https://twitter.com/artinmycart?t=_qTWx77lh6YbPWVIAnXKmg&amp;s=09"><strong><em>Twitter</em></strong></a><strong><em> and </em></strong><a href="https://artinmycart.medium.com/subscribe"><strong><em>subscribe</em></strong></a><strong><em> to my newsletter which can make us stay connected.</em></strong></p><p><strong>Love to all of you❤</strong></p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=b58ba7e9e2aa" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[I just decoded positive practice to Success!]]></title>
            <link>https://artinmycart.medium.com/i-just-decoded-positive-practice-to-success-5624f4a1d52a?source=rss-244f22558398------2</link>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2023 11:47:41 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-03-06T14:44:53.478Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*nreW4BBoLzPUVfQfkYs9FQ.png" /><figcaption>📷: Passion Pitt.</figcaption></figure><p><strong>Yes,</strong></p><p>Success is the ultimate goal for all of us, and we all have different definitions of what success means to us. However, one thing is certain, achieving success is not easy, and the first step is always Realization; there are no shortcuts to success. <strong>The only shortcut to success which is possibly existing is hardships and efforts.</strong> Without hard work and dedication, there is no crisp or volume to the term success.</p><p>A life filled with ease and comfort might sound appealing, but it is not the path to reality. It is the challenges and difficulties that push us towards success.</p><p>There was a phase in my life where I used to search shortcut in comfort. A part of me was scared to hustle, try. Why? Because we as human just doesn’t fear about failure. but growing up, social insecurities make us awkward. In my opinion one thing which was constant to me is, people often look at successful individuals and admire their lifestyle without realizing the struggles they went through to get there. Or many times even people in social media glorify success as cakewalk while it should always be how they managed to carve this path through storms through chaos.</p><p>It is not something that can be achieved overnight. It requires patience, perseverance, and hard work. It is a result of continuous efforts and not a one-time occurrence.</p><p>We live in a world where instant gratification is the norm, and people want quick results without putting in much effort.</p><p>The road to accomplishments are full of challenges, obstacles, and failures. But it is the failure that shape us into stronger and more resilient individuals. It is through these challenges that we learn valuable lessons that help us grow develop and evolve . Without having an effort-driven approach, we would not be able to appreciate the value of success.</p><h3>Try these 4 inbuilt practices in your daily routine, and you will see positive changes in your long run.</h3><p>1.) <strong>Have a Self Drive</strong></p><p>Success is not just about fame money growth. Let’s accept it these all factors are an adjoining navigation to the term <strong>“passion”.</strong> It’s very important to have a drive. I personally acknowledge it now. That until unless, you are stubborn about your wants, your clarity about your goals and your planning towards it’s accomplishments is placed correctly,no one can dare to touch your growth. Have a drive have a purpose, prey it<strong>. “Don’t settle with the serving”.</strong></p><h3>2<strong>)Fear no Human</strong></h3><p>Do you know a thing which we all have in common or we might relate with, at certain point of our life. It’s fear. Fear of not performing well, Fear of losing, Fear of someone else beating us.</p><p>In terms of profession, education or remuneration and Success.</p><p>This is one of an anxiety and fear we all face. I know as social animal it’s normal to feel a fear of threat, and it’s positive to me atleast we are analytical about situations. But what’s important is to know. There are only two sides to a coin Heads and Tails, (<strong>win or lose) how we win?</strong> When we try. How we lose with the fear of not trying enough. I have learned this mo matter how big your competition is how powerful the another person’s aura is, no one can move a person with <strong>strong will power,</strong> end of the day we all are Human. The day we develop in ourselves. This is what it is, but i will improve it, I fear no human. Because I have nothing to loose nor to gain. When I share my experience, the day I started thinking about life in this manner, nothing can stop us.</p><h3>3) Run behind Purpose.</h3><p>Yes, when someone ask me what is your purpose of writing, why you write. I’d definitely be saying it’s the process I want to trust I believe in consistency with zero expectancy of outcomes, and guess what it does help me. It’s same for every situation we all should have a purpose to follow a dream to hunt. If we see our present version, it should have a purpose a promise to our future version, that we will going to be better;life without purpose is similar to eyes without vision.</p><h3>4) Accept your Failures as Reward to your efforts.</h3><p>It’s not a bad thing to fail, but failing without even trying is wrong. When you say success it demands failures, not once but many times. The attribution towards failure starts with acceptance. <strong>When we accept why we failed and how we failed we live to replenish it and be better</strong>.</p><p>Failure is an inevitable part of life, and while it can be disheartening, it is also a crucial element of success. Failure provides us with valuable lessons that we can use to improve and grow. It allows us to understand our weaknesses and develop strategies to overcome them. Accepting failure also builds resilience and determination, enabling us to persist in the face of adversity. Without failure, we would never truly appreciate success, and we would never have the opportunity to push ourselves beyond our limits. Ultimately, embracing failure is essential for personal and professional growth, and it is a vital ingredient to excel every difficult situation in life.</p><h3>Confidence is key when it comes to achieving our goals. It’s important to trust in ourselves, our skills, and our journey. Being brave and bold in our choices can open up new opportunities and lead to great success. Don’t let fear hold you back - believe in yourself and your abilities, and take bold steps towards your dreams. Remember, confidence is contagious, and when we believe in ourselves, we inspire others to do the same.</h3><p><strong>Take baby steps every day, give all that you do your best effort, and recognize that hardships takes no investment but the results it gives is so gratifying to experience. To realize that this is my own ROI. If following these tips doesn’t bring you great success and happiness. Nothing else will ever going to be .</strong></p><h3>“Grow ,Glow and never ever give up”</h3><h4>I love all of my Medium family, you people are my sole motivation for writing. I can only write when I connect it with the things I am constantly learning and experiencing. Everyday growth and self-improvement are something I believe in.</h4><h4>Show me a lot of love and support like you always do so that we can continue to build stronger together. ❤💪</h4><h4>Lot’s of love and positivity to all💌</h4><p>Connect with me on my <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/radhika-sharma-374658262">LinkedIn</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/artinmycart?t=_qTWx77lh6YbPWVIAnXKmg&amp;s=09">Twitter.</a> If you like my writing please show me support while <a href="https://artinmycart.medium.com/subscribe">subscribing</a> to my newsletter.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=5624f4a1d52a" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why Don’t We Talk More About the Power of Kindness?]]></title>
            <link>https://artinmycart.medium.com/why-dont-we-talk-more-about-the-power-of-kindness-df34c735b24f?source=rss-244f22558398------2</link>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2023 14:39:44 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-03-07T14:09:16.240Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*WgFbn1eUVZ-lPvl0HPMaMg.png" /><figcaption>Photo by Adam Nemeroff on Unsplash</figcaption></figure><blockquote>Country,society, traditions, religion, culture, customs. We all are divided by this algorithm. But one thing that connects each one of us is more then enough. “<strong>A Human”.</strong></blockquote><p>Yes, Humanity is something makes each one of us connected. When. The moment we see pain around us, and it creates a form of unsettling emotion inside us that’s where humanity exist. When a writer on medium shares its struggles, suffering, pain and growth essayed as story. And how we display our every empathy and opinion to each one of those writer, that’s where a part of good in people exist.</p><h3>I wasn’t always a people’s person, I had a negative mindset towards the concept humanity, I know partially it’s a truth. Human tends to be selfish, self-secured etc.</h3><p>But, this is just that part of circle which has black in it, white in it and as similar a touch of grey in it. Everytime you can make someone happy, or just kind or helpful. They remember it and no matter how hard and problematic your life situation is. It will get paid back to you. “<strong>No good remains unnoticed, i can assure each one of us about it”.</strong></p><h3>Why I believe that when “we be good to people it comes back to us”.</h3><p>My approach towards life 1 year back, was just neutral. I had a rough past and sour experiences which made me felt like good in people is just a fancy term to write as quote. That doesn’t destroy the kindness in me though, but bad experiences made me conservative and reserved in my own self. Until I met a person,</p><p>I think great things happens when you expect the least. And it was with me. <strong>I met someone in early 2022, and that personality played a crucial role to a certain point in my life.</strong> His ideology, his thoughts had an impact on me big time. I was moved when I came to knew him more each day. Who was a constant evolver, down-to-earth, kind,</p><p>Compassionate, considerate and more of a learner. No matter, how short the time span and duration that person spent with me. I grew as a person in his shadow. And i always let him knew that, you brought a change in me, and i dedicate a part of my growth and my journey to you.</p><h3>Sometimes, no matter how long you exist, you cannot find a purpose to move forward. Then there are days, when you meet people or face experiences that affects your mindset, and leave a never-fading imprint on our personality.</h3><p>I believe in people, it’s true, world is full of harsh and dark realities with twisted and devastatingly scary experiences stored in each individual plate. But coming together showing support to each other. And be kind to everyone around plays a vital role.</p><h3>There is lots to give and take in this world. But the most underrated thing is kindness, and having an act of selflessness in ourselves.</h3><p>Staying Humble is a powerful tool that can positively impact people’s lives. It is often underestimated, yet it can create a ripple effect that spreads far beyond the original act. When people choose to be kind, they not only benefit the recipient of their kindness, but also themselves and the community around them.<br>Believing in people and doing good to others, even when it’s difficult, it is a testament to the power of kindness. It requires a willingness to put aside personal agendas and to see the humanity in others. In doing so, we can break down barriers, build trust and understanding, and create a more compassionate society as well as environment around us.<br>So, let us all believe in people and continue to do good to others, even in the face of adversity. By doing so, we can make a positive difference in the world, “<strong>one act of kindness at a time”.</strong></p><h3>Be Humble, be grounded and never stop spreading positivity around you.</h3><p>Thankyou, for reading my blog. I say it everytime, medium is my choosen family. And I’m glad to have a wrap of such supportive people around. I read comments on my blogs everyday. And you people literally make me feel motivated to move further and keep sharing my thoughts.</p><h3>Thankyou, for sticking around with me. Constructive criticism are always welcomed.</h3><h3>Love and just Love ❤</h3><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*_sGgj4IowyAdo1moqdrZpA.png" /><figcaption>Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash</figcaption></figure><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=df34c735b24f" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <link>https://artinmycart.medium.com/dear-medium-family-i-write-this-for-you-b9c41f3fe84e?source=rss-244f22558398------2</link>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2023 05:26:50 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2024-10-26T05:33:39.819Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*c21F6uybXMVP2cnX" /><figcaption>❤️</figcaption></figure><p>“Dear medium family, I have been writing on this platform for over 4 months now, my followers are not just my family but my motivation to keep writing” Currently I’m a bit unstable in my life and it’s okay that’s how life is it is never easy. But I’m a learner and I will prevail I will survive. I just want to share some of my learnings with you people today.</p><h3><strong>A lesson I learned in past one month is never degrade yourself as a fresher, if we do so, it means that we signing up for self humiliation.</strong></h3><ul><li><strong>Commandment 01-</strong> &quot;No one can exploit me just because I’m a Fresher&quot; <br>I have learnt this way earlier that no one will going to stand for you, if you won’t be taking a constructive stand for yourself by raising your voice against discrimination.</li></ul><p><strong>Commandment 02-</strong> “I believe in my hard-work my skills and my journey. I will get the best if my intentions are real and my approach has hardships in it. but i will never be accepting injustice”. just because I’m a Fresher!</p><h3><strong>“I’m young I’m naive, i will fall i will grow, i will learn. But I will never going to stop, and resort injustice as my destiny”.</strong></h3><p><strong>Connect with me on my </strong><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/radhika-sharma-374658262"><strong>LinkedIn</strong></a><strong> and </strong><a href="https://twitter.com/artinmycart?t=_qTWx77lh6YbPWVIAnXKmg&amp;s=09"><strong>Twitter.</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://artinmycart.medium.com/subscribe"><strong><em>subscribe</em></strong></a><strong><em> to my newsletter, it’s the most valued greeting i can avail.</em></strong></p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=b9c41f3fe84e" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why I fear Socializing and meeting new people?]]></title>
            <link>https://artinmycart.medium.com/sexual-assault-just-dont-imprint-mind-it-scar-our-soul-98d817b57a2f?source=rss-244f22558398------2</link>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Radhika]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2023 04:29:26 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-03-06T13:01:58.281Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*EXwGKXtAF92NwTRl8JPIMg.png" /><figcaption>Photo by Alexander Krivitskiy on Unsplash</figcaption></figure><p><strong>When we think about childhood, our fond memories are easily devoted towards our growing years family, siblings.</strong> And sometimes those flashbacks which haunts us forever. I think I have met many people mostly women who shared with me thier experience about sexually assault when they were young. I’m one in it.</p><blockquote>One of my cousins, who was 16 or 17, assaulted me when I was 12 years old. I was sexually abused for four of my formative years. If I attempt to recall everything precisely, the word that comes to mind is &quot;Bad Touch.&quot; I was too young to distinguish between different things and categorise them, and neither my parents nor my upbringing had prepared me for this. And I believe that the generational gap was their issue, to lack an understanding over my sufferings.</blockquote><p>All of these horrifying incidents continued until I was 15 and he was 18 years old. touching me on my body, my genetials and other private areas. I won’t be lying if i state that I never understood the intention. My parents used to believe that because he is my older brother, he will look after me if I am left alone with him. And When my parents later saw him inappropriately touching me, they immediately put an end to it. It all eventually came to an end. But the thing I regret today is why i never understood the intent initially, my parents never confronted me about those traumatic incidents with me believing it will be breaking me. And it continued to bother my mind every single passing day. My parents were concerned about me, and they didn’t wanted me to suffer from terrible memories. Though it always haunted a part of me consciously or subconsciously.</p><p>My life was divided among periods of dilemma. I made it a practise to speak less, and up to the age of 18, I kept believing maybe I deserved it. However, once I made the decision to discuss this with my parents. and let them know how broken I was when I was growing up. They always knew it, but hearing it from me and seeing me cry moved them to tears. Because they sensed that I suffered as a result of their ignorance.</p><p>Anyway time heals major pain and trauma’s of our life and <strong>now i feel, at the age of 24, &quot;why my earlier self blamed herself for everything</strong>. While entering adulthood, I refined my way of thinking, and I manifested it. So that no matter what the circumstance would be, <strong>If I don’t feel at ease, I will loudly object.</strong></p><h3>When sexual assault is accepted as a common occurrence, predators are empowered to continue their behaviour.</h3><p>I feel, we should teach the younger generation around us,how to distinguish between a <strong>good Approach and a bad Approach</strong> by refusing to engage in any assault, no matter how tiny or large it may be…</p><p>Because, sexual exploitation is a serious issue that affects individuals of all ages, <strong>but it is especially devastating when it happens to young people.</strong> The effects of sexual exploitation can last a lifetime and cause lasting harm to a person’s mental and emotional health. It is not something that should ever be considered normal or acceptable.</p><p>The exploitation of young people is particularly concerning because they are still in the process of developing their sense of self and their understanding of the world around them. When they experience sexual assault in any manner, it can have a profound and lasting impact on their mental and emotional health, and can even lead to a lifetime of trauma and psychological damage. because they are vulnerable and may be less likely to speak out or seek help. They may feel ashamed or embarrassed about what has happened to them, or they may not know how to get the help they need. This only serves to further exacerbate the harm caused by the exploitation and can make it difficult for these young people to seek the support they need to heal. I can articulate all this because these exact was my thoughts while growing up. It is up to all of us to work together to prevent sexual exploitation, to support those who have been affected by it or might still getting affected. And to create a world in which it is not tolerated.</p><p><strong>Thank you for reading; at the time I wrote it, I might have already reached that stage in my life. But I’ll be fine, I promise. Love to all people everywhere; we are powerful; we are cherished.</strong>🫂💌</p><p><strong>I would love to connect with my readers via </strong><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/radhika-sharma-374658262"><strong>LinkedIn</strong></a><strong> and </strong><a href="https://twitter.com/artinmycart?t=9xvKbQilkTjhxCSizDB1oA&amp;s=09"><strong>Twitter</strong></a></p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=98d817b57a2f" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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